How to learn to let go?!
Question: How to learn to let go!?
my mom has decided to forgo treatments and put herself on hospice!.We are very very close yet she made this decision on her own I'm feeked out stuglin with how to come to terms with what hit me
and how to accept itWww@Answer-Health@Com
and how to accept itWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Just trust your mom's judgement!. I too was a cancer patient!. This is a very hard treatment!.!. But she may feel that she had all she can take!. We all are different!.!.Hold to to God thorough this as he can and will give you a peace that surpasses all understanding!. Trust me this works!. I shall be in prayer for your Mom and you!. God bless !.keep the faith!. and stay strong for your Mom!.She needs you more now than she ever has!. as this was a hard decision for her to make!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is not really important whether you accept what your mother has decided to do or not !. !. the only thing that really matters right now is your mother !. !. not you !. !. and that is how you will come to deal with all of this!. This is your mothers choice and all you need to do is love your mother and if you love her you will support her through this final journey!. She needs peace now and does not need to deal with how you are feeling!. So !. !. it is unfortunately time to be a 'grown up' (and by that I mean to deal with the unthinkable, to stay strong, supportive, and focused on helping your mother through her last months, weeks, or days!. When you support your Mom !. !. than the learning to accept and let go will eventually become more clear to you !. !. you will do this for her !. !. your final gift to your mother!. You can do it !. !. because you need to!.
I understand what you face!. Focus on each day and moment and just be with your mother!. Just love her!. Say everything that needs to be said and have no regrets!.
Stay strong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I understand what you face!. Focus on each day and moment and just be with your mother!. Just love her!. Say everything that needs to be said and have no regrets!.
Stay strong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My Grandpa decided to do the same thing!. It was hard to see him forgo treatments, but we were able to see him as who he was and not as sick as he would have been if he had been doing treatments!.
It is a hard situation to deal with!. Spend as much time as you can with your mom - relive all of your memories!. Help her reach her last goals!.
Talk to someone about how you feel - the hospice people are excellent and they can help you deal with this too!.
Good luck - I am thinking of you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is a hard situation to deal with!. Spend as much time as you can with your mom - relive all of your memories!. Help her reach her last goals!.
Talk to someone about how you feel - the hospice people are excellent and they can help you deal with this too!.
Good luck - I am thinking of you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
there is no good answer to this question just be strong and surround yourself with family and friendsWww@Answer-Health@Com