My husband I both were smokers...?!


Question: My husband I both were smokers!.!.!.!?
We just got married in May and in preparation for starting a family, we talked about quitting!. We plan on waiting a couple years before trying to conceive, but I decided to quit now so that I can be completely over it before that time came!. Two months ago, I decided I wasn't going to buy anymore and that I was quitting!. I didn't say anything to him!. A few days later, he had noticed I wasn't smoking and he agreed to quit as well!. That lasted about a week!. He began bumming cigs off people at work and then began buying them himself again!. His family and friends still think he has quit!. The guys at work and me are the only ones who knows he's still smoking!. It hurts my feelings because I feel like he doesn't respect the fact that I'm trying to quit!. He will light up a cigarette while driving in the car with me!. I'm doing fine while I'm away from it, but when I smell it like that, it makes it much harder for me to keep from lighting up myself!. He continues to tell me that he is going to quit and that he wants too, but he keeps putting it off!. I did get him to stop smoking in the house, but he continues to go outside and smoke!. He was a much heavier smoker than me and I understand it's going to be harder for him to quit!. I just wish he would give it a chance rather than running for a smoke everytime he gets frustrated or stressed!. That is the excuse he gives me!. Is there anything I can do to help him finally quit!? Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Well if he smokes around you he won't think twice about smoking around a baby and you don't want that!.!.!.!.People with addictions always have an excuse that isn't their fault!.!.!.!.I quit by sucking on a dum dum sucker everyt time i wanted a cigarette!.!.!.!.really the addiction is broken after 3-7 days it's just the physical part that is the hardest to get over!.!.but fact is he won't quit unless he wants to!.!.!.!.I would suggest buying a huge bag of dum dums and tell him that those are replacing his cigarettes from now on!.!.!.!.because if he can't quit now what makes him think he can do it just because you guys change something!.!.!.like a baby or something!.!.!.!.and tell him to quit smoking around you!.!.!.!.if you wanted to breathe it you wouldn't have quit in the first place!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Stopping smoking was a difficult task for me, but it is well worth it to quit that nasty habit!. For me, it was the hardest thing I ever did!. I hate cigarette makers :) I found this site called http://xrl!.us/oq2oi where I found some help to quit my bad habit!. After doing some of the things I found on there, I was able to quit in about 2 weeks and have been off that habit for several months!. I now sleep alot better and do simple things without feeling so winded!. You can find more information at their addiction section http://xrl!.us/oq2oi !. I used this to get started and cannot recommend it higher!. Good luck with this Www@Answer-Health@Com





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