How do i just let go?!


Question: How do i just let go!?
My boyfriend has been in prison and just got out he has a brain tumor is recovering from mrsa and meningitis!.!.!.he has fluid on his brain!.!.!.but he will change up on me all the time!.!.one min!. he says he loves me n wants me there then next he will cuss me out n tell me 2 leave!.!.!.what do i do!?!? i know he loves me bc b4 all of this he was wonderful he was the most gentle man ever! but y is he like this now!? what do i do!? and how do i just let go and leave when he tells me 2!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
personality changes are common with some brain tumors!. Have you talked to his physicians about his personality change(s) and mood swings!? There may be something more going on!. Honestly, if you can either go with him to his next appt and let them know about his behavior, please do so!. Also, find a support group either locally or online that might help shed some light on his behavior changes and mood swings!.
If he becomes verbally or (especially) physically abusive, then you MUST leave him to save yourself!. You can't live your life based on the "what used to be" you must live in the here and now!. If he is now an abusive, angry, mood swinging partner with a medically induced personality disorder, there really isn't anything you can do about it, and you must leave him for the sake of your self esteem and sanity!. It isn't your fault he is like that, and you are not a weak person for wanting to leave, it takes a strong person to walk away when it is time!.
Remember, that although it will hurt to leave him, the pain will pass!. During that time I strongly suggest that you find a support group to help you through that time and to repair some of the pain and damage that has happened to you b/c of this roller coaster relationship!.
Blessings and I wish the best for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hes obviously going threw alot, he needs support and space and you shouldnt be thinking of you if you love him, this is how some people deal with things, try not being around so much and only visit when he calls for you!. and fluid on his brain might make him act a little different you would think!. so maybe thats your answer for why hes acting weird!.

just give him some space and let him miss you!. if he asks you to leave then say call me later and leave!. hes gonna be a hot head for awhile!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sometimes, you gotta look out for you!. It's great to be able to help someone, but sometimes that calls for too great a sacrifice of who or what you are!.
-EWww@Answer-Health@Com





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