I told him I gave him an std.?!


Question: I told him I gave him an std!.!?
So I went to the clinic to get tested!. Turns out I had BV!. After that I had sex with my (bf) now ex!. He broke up with me, We kept having sex, but he kept disappearing!. So I had sex with an old ex who i had been with for 3 years prior to this 1!. He was already acting funny when we were having sex!. We ended up getting into a big argument about std's and i swore up and down that i just got tested, and everything was fine!. I ended up going to the doc again, because i was still having pain with intercourse etc!. Turns out I now had chlamydia, and cervicitis!. I told ex number 1, and he flips out saying ' I knew something was wrong with me, thats y i been hidin i just didnt know if it was you, come to find out it was yoU! thats why i dont like effin cuz no one is honest!"!. Ex number 2 stopped talking to me completely for 2 months!. He text me the other day and we pretty much made up and i apoligized!.
Im trying to figure out who gave it to me!. I would say 1, but i had sex with him before i went to the clinic as well!. I sent him a text back asking if he effed anyone else, and i dont believe him,and He told me to go F8Ck myself!.!.!.
ANyways!.!. How many women can actually stand up and tell someone they gave you an std!? Was i right!? I actually feel like a decent person, for not letting someone walk around in the dark!. Also what would be a response from someone who just figured out they got an std!. Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You did the correct thing in telling him!.

IT is NOT easy telling someone that you have a STD, now they have it!. Generally the person who gets tested first is normally the one who gets the blame!. Which is totally unfortunate!. But the truth is, obvious!. Anyone can get them, the only people that will know about it, are the people who get tested!.

You a decent person, feel proud of yourself, and don't worry about your ex#1!. To me he either took that really really badly, or he is covering for himself, but getting angry at you!.

At least chlamydia is treatable!. Take care!.

**My bf got tested and has herpes!. I just accepted the fact he had be sexually active prior to me!. That is the only way you can get a std!. So if you konw that the person you are sleeping with has slept with others!. Then you are well aware that you are at a risk**Www@Answer-Health@Com

Um, I had chlamydia and I was in a 3 year realionship!. I called him and told him I had it and that HE gave it to me!.!.!. I got treated, he got treated!.!.!. I broke up with him!. How do you know ONE of THEM didn't give it to YOU! *Shrugs* It's only right you tell them, it's their health also!.!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

whoa dude you are such a slut I mean we are out of the dark ages what happen to common sense is it you get caught up in the moment and lose your mind condoms condoms condoms Www@Answer-Health@Com

You were right to tell him!. Hopefully he will tell anyone else he was having sex with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm proud of you for telling him
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K first off, butterfly, Shut the **** up!. who are you to come into the STD collum and judge anyone who has one, you dont know **** about having an STD or how it must feel, its people like YOU why people with STDS hide it because they're worried *** holes like you will talk about them!.

Sorry i needed to get that off my chest!.
NOW!.
yes, you did the right thing, he deserved to know, I know no guy or girl would be brave to stand up and say "yes, i gave you an STD" most would lie, wich might help you in the short time but if they get it you would feel bad and guilty!.

good job for telling those guys!
best wishes! Www@Answer-Health@Com





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