Should i be on meds? Ive been this way for 15yrs.?!


Question: Should i be on meds!? Ive been this way for 15yrs!.!?
-I cry every other day about something
-I constantly argue with my husband!.
-I catch nervous breakdowns that either turn violent, screaming loud from the top of my lungs, or into a low depressing suicidal state, where i feel all alone and unheard
-My patience is very short before i get fustrated and turn into a bit@%
-I always feel fat (im about 140 pounds)
-My diet is yoga and eating right!. But when i dont eat healthy i vomit!. Food relieves my stress so when I want i enjoy all my favorite foods then i vomit them of course cause im a diet freak!.
-Im paranoid about my husbands feelings for me(dont trust him)
-I pick arguments with him just to get attention!.
-I get sad when im by myself!.
-I love alot of sex and if he's tired i think im not beautiful enough!.
-I think im extremely ugly even though i get lots of compliments!.
(I dont believe them)
-I smoke weed to void the pain inside that no one sees!.
-I never got over my painful past
The list can go on and on!.!.!. im basically a ticking bomb and i never fail to explode!. Im scared because i loose control when im over the top and i could never tell for the next time !.should i be in a mental hospital
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Were you sexually abused!? It sounds to me like you were sexually abused at some time in your life!.!.!.!.!.I know it doesn't sound like the best advice but I would go see a counselor and maybe after a while get your husband to go to counseling with you so he can understand your side of the way you feel!. It is not uncommon for people that have been sexually abused to become diet fanatics and paranoid and feel a sense of rejection when someone won't have sex with them!. And it is also not uncommon for someone who has an eating disorder to want more sex than normal or not at all and also paranoia!. It sounds like you have all of the symptoms of wanting control and when you don't have it in every way you lose your temper!. I don't believe you should be in a mental hospital I do believe that you need to go to counseling to resolve some ghosts in your past!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to go to a psychiatrist!. you sound bipolar/manic depressive with a personality disorder, borderline eating disorder, and many other things!. Your mental state is not healthy!. But you don't need to go to the hospital!. Make an app!. with a psychiatrist and you should be able to get medicine and a lot of help and maybe you'll feel better!. You might need to go to a regular doctor to make sure everything is ok in your body!. Just a physical, and especially discuss your mental/emotional problems!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes you should see a Psychiatrist!. You should get a referral from your regular doctor if you have too, but I wouldn't let your General Practioner prescribe meds because they usually don't know what they are doing and they will take an educated guess!.

The good news is that there are very good medications out there, but unfortuanetly it sometimes takes time to try a couple and see how the side effects are!. Lexapro is a really good drug!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's possible that medication could help you, and therapy could definitely help you!. Mental illness is just that - an illness!. It's not your fault, and it doesn't mean your a bad person!. We go to the doctor when we are physically sick, and there is no shame in getting help when you are feeling like this!. If there is any way to make your life better, you deserve to try it out!. I wish you all the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would definately be talking to your doctor, perhaps they can do a blood test and determine if anything is wrong with you or at least, you will be able to get a professional opinion from someone who doesnt know all your personal life!

I find that helps, I have done it in the past and well after 2 years I went on medication and ahve never felt better!Www@Answer-Health@Com

No don't the doctors have become corrupt all they care about is money my dad has gone to see the doctors over 34 time due to his broken back they only checked him and did not try to help just to see a doctor cost like $350 and they don't do any thing all i can say is to find a better way to fix it !.Www@Answer-Health@Com

My god you just described me! except crying , Ive lost that ability!. I think your very insacure and need to talk to someone!. If meds!. help than so be it but, I find what helps me more than anything is talking, and knowing someone understand why I feel this way!. Or why I react this way!.!.!.!.if that makes sense!. But ultimintly you have to do what works for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes , you should have!. it could be depression, postpardum depression!. it can kill any kind of depression can kill you please kind help!. and let them help you
and it's not him ( about your husband "thing") we girls mostly are that way but it sounds as though your paraniod, another sign of depression
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Sounds like you should be on a mood stabilizer and possibly an anti-depressant!. You would be amazed at the wonders it will do for you!. You'll feel like a new person and will wonder why you didn't do it sooner!. You will also get along with your husband so much better!.

Just give it a try :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

You should see a therapist and get diagnosed, but don't feel like you're strange and unusual!. In my opinion, we're all messed up in one way or another and need to see a therapist!. I've had depression since age 12, and have yet to see a therapist (I'm almost 21)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

See your doctor!. I was going through something similar and was diagnosed with depression and anxiety!. I was prescribed a wonderful pill that makes me feel calm and relaxed!. I feel like whatever happens happens!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

You could always go to a psychiatrist!. They can tell you if you should be on anxiety meds or antidepressants!. They can also help you work through your problems by talking!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you should just go see a psychiatrist and try to work through things!.
That's what you need!.
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yesWww@Answer-Health@Com

talk with your doctorWww@Answer-Health@Com

get a bald therapist their the bestWww@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds to me as if you are not hormonally balanced!. You need to see a Psychiatrist!. Preferably a good woman, cos I think your problems have to do with hormones!. You need to have a battery of tests, endocrinal tests!.
If you go on like this with your husband he'll divorce you, you are making it very difficult for him, there are more women than men, so watch out!. Stop thinking of yourself all the time, but do go to a Psychiatrist and he can have the tests prescribed!. Lots of Luck!.
You did not say how old you were, or how long you've been married, or if you have had children!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think that you are on your way to healing if you are able to know yourself well like this and are able to put these feelings down on paper!.!.!.or typed on a computer! Good for you!.!.!.but I would not go so far yet to say you should be in a mental hospital!. People can get help from therapists!.!.mental hopsitals might be for extreme cases!.!.!.especially those that include suicide ideations!.!.perhaps you should give a counselor or therapist a try!? Get a referral from your doctor!. Good luck!.!.!.I hope you wll be ok!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

that must be really hard but SO many people are going through the same things you are!. sure meds may help especially for depression i went through and still go through stages similar to you and zoloft really helped me and reduced anxiety and stress, and i hear you with the vomiting when u eat unhealthy i still struggle with it sometimes and the whole people giving you compliments but not believing them i get that way sometimes but some things you should do that may help are to relax, think positive, taking a walk to clear your head instead of pot(better alternative) taking a shower, or running your hands under warm water actually helps you to relax, or lay down, taking a deep breath or both haha

but maybe taking a med for that would be a good idea to help with that


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