How can I abstain from sex?!
Question:
How can I abstain from sex?
I have not had sex in 2 months and I plan on not having sex for a while. I got tested for STDs about a month ago, I'm disease free and I want to keep it that way. But it really gets hard for me. I wouldn't say I'm addicted to sex, but I think about it quite often. I'm trying to abtain from having sex for a while, but I want to know how I can keep myself from getting in situations where I feel like having sex. So does anyone have any advice or tips?? Thanks.
Answers:
It gets a little better once you get used to it. The first two weeks were hell but then I started getting used to it. I still masturbate, mind you, but I don't think about sex constantly. I just to stay busy and concentrate on my hobbies, friends, career, education, etc.
If you start dating someone, get to know them before sleeping with them. Make sure that they're clean and use protection. Don't invite anyone back to your place after a date and don't go out and get drunk with them if you have a problem saying no when you've been drinking.
Good luck!