HELP i think my boyfriend has a METH PROBLEM...?!
Question: HELP i think my boyfriend has a METH PROBLEM!.!.!.!?
My boyfriend has admitted to using meth before, he doesnt seem to do it all the time maybe once a month!? everything will be fine between us and one day he will disappear for days without calling or answering my texts or calls, I am reading up on meth and I would like to know if this is common for a meth user to disconnect himself like that!. he has kids also, I am worried he will lose his job, i knew he used to do it alot more when he was a teenager but he is 34 now!.!.!.and the more i am around him the more i get this feeling it might be a problem!.!.!. his car is home but no one is at his place, where is he at!? who is he with!? is he alive!? these things are going thru my head!. I would never suspect him of cheating either but is this a likely behavior if a person is on meth!? I have had gut feelings about cheating and I honestly dont feel this in my heart, but am i just being naive here!? help me i dont know what to do!. i feel like he may be drowning and i do not know how to stop someone I love from drowning himself!. He admits when he uses sometimes but blows it off like its no big deal!. i dont think he thinks he has a problem, but not contacting me for days not going to work or seein his kids, I SEE THIS AS A PROBLEM!.!.!.please give me your thoughts
if i could please get a word from someone who has dealt with this issue specifically thanks
and thats the thing i dont find him sneaking around anywhere, i dont find meth at his place, i believe he knows BAD PEOPLE and when he gets around them he does it, i never find signs of it around the home EVER! thats why i thought it was an occasional thing not so serious BUT HIM LEAVING FOR DAYS IS NOT COOL WITH ME, him not goin to work or seein his kids, THIS JUST ISNT RIGHT!
ok and is he EVER GOING TO SAY OK I THINK I HAVE A PROBLEM!? i am his girlfriend i have my own kids, but i have known him for years, he has an EX WIFE and kids with her,(i am beginning to think this might have been the reason for their break up, but how will i ever know his ex isnt exactly the approachable type) CAN A METH USER STOP aND SAY i HAVE A PROBLEM!? he complains of his stomach hurting all the time, he cant sleep etc!.!.!.(OK and to the people who are answering me who have done METH why is it so easy for you guys to share with a stranger the effects and why u have done this but it isnt so easy to tell the person you love you have or had a problem!?) i am more interested in getting the person who has used before's point of view!.!.!.
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if i could please get a word from someone who has dealt with this issue specifically thanks
and thats the thing i dont find him sneaking around anywhere, i dont find meth at his place, i believe he knows BAD PEOPLE and when he gets around them he does it, i never find signs of it around the home EVER! thats why i thought it was an occasional thing not so serious BUT HIM LEAVING FOR DAYS IS NOT COOL WITH ME, him not goin to work or seein his kids, THIS JUST ISNT RIGHT!
ok and is he EVER GOING TO SAY OK I THINK I HAVE A PROBLEM!? i am his girlfriend i have my own kids, but i have known him for years, he has an EX WIFE and kids with her,(i am beginning to think this might have been the reason for their break up, but how will i ever know his ex isnt exactly the approachable type) CAN A METH USER STOP aND SAY i HAVE A PROBLEM!? he complains of his stomach hurting all the time, he cant sleep etc!.!.!.(OK and to the people who are answering me who have done METH why is it so easy for you guys to share with a stranger the effects and why u have done this but it isnt so easy to tell the person you love you have or had a problem!?) i am more interested in getting the person who has used before's point of view!.!.!.
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Answers:
Run!.
Run fast in the other direction!.
He is using, these are classic signs!.
He can't tell you about it, because he knows you know in your gut that this is trouble!. He shares a special bond with all other users that doesn't include you, so he can confide in them!.
He is drowning, and like a drowning man, if you swim out to "save" him, he will climb you like a pole and take you down too!. He will hollow himself and his bank account out, then he will go to work on you and yours!. You owe yourself and ESPECIALLY your kids to get away from him!.
Don't take his calls!. Don't listen to his excuses (he will have many)!. Don't open the door!.
Let the friendly people at Narcotics Anonymous help him when he is ready!. You keep your resources for your kids!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Run fast in the other direction!.
He is using, these are classic signs!.
He can't tell you about it, because he knows you know in your gut that this is trouble!. He shares a special bond with all other users that doesn't include you, so he can confide in them!.
He is drowning, and like a drowning man, if you swim out to "save" him, he will climb you like a pole and take you down too!. He will hollow himself and his bank account out, then he will go to work on you and yours!. You owe yourself and ESPECIALLY your kids to get away from him!.
Don't take his calls!. Don't listen to his excuses (he will have many)!. Don't open the door!.
Let the friendly people at Narcotics Anonymous help him when he is ready!. You keep your resources for your kids!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Robert Downey Jr had the same problem! They called him a METH ACTOR, he has gone to rehab a couple of times!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sweetie, let me tell you something!. My best friend just found out last week that her husband has been using meth and you know what else!? Every time that he was using it, he cheated on her!. They have 3 kids, a nice house, own their own business, they have the dream life!. Don't wait for him to step up and say that he has a problem, because if you do it will never happen!. It's very rare for addicts of any sort to admit they have a problem, instead TELL HIM that he has a problem and that he needs to get help!. Remind him of everything he could loose!.!.!.you, his kids, his job, his friends!.!.!.Good luck, I hope you can help him with this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com