My aunt is being mean to me due to my cancer please help...?!


Question: My aunt is being mean to me due to my cancer please help!.!.!.!?
I had sent some pics to my family of me losing my hair during chemo just to show what I am going thru!.!.!. My aunt text me back and said she was offended and she said "what do you want me to feel sorry for you!?" that was not my intentions!. I DIDNT WANT THAT!. Just to show them I am scared !.How should I handle this without being rude she hurt me and made me cry!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
hey,

I am terribly sorry you are sick!. and i pray you get healthy soon!.
In regards to your questions, i wouldnt know what to do to be honest!. How ever i can offer some options for you!.

It might be that your aunt is just as scared as you, and doesnt really know how to help!. I would if i was in your shoes, let it cool down a bit and then i would write a letter!. Not an email!. A letter and let her know that it truely wasnt your intentions!.

Another option could be you call her, and let her know you are sorry and that you were hurt by what she said to you!. Let her know you love her and would hate for something like this to come between you both!.

I find people are strange when it comes to illnesses, Some people know exactly how to be, others dont and they behave very strangly!. I wouldnt worry to much, focus on fighting the cancer and also you could possibly send her a card!. A sorry card or something, if you have the energy a hand made one !.!.!. maybe with a photo of you and her on the front!.

I hope it all works out for you

Take care

ClemangelWww@Answer-Health@Com

Some people cannot handle the thought of cancer or any major illness and the effects!. I'm really sorry your aunt is not very helpful or sensitive to your issues!. You might just have to ignore her behavior and words and go on with your life and work with other family members and friends who support you!. Do not allow this to poison your positive outlook!. Don't waste your energy with this type of person!.

Sounds like you might want to find a cancer support group where you can share your concerns, treatment results, and general feelings!. My friend joined a cancer group on line!. She had friends who were going through treatment and they recommended a site for her!. That might work for you, too!.

Look at
http://www!.cancer!.gov/cancertopics/suppo!.!.!.
and scroll down to support organizations!.
Try http://www!.cancernews!.com/support!.html or
http://boards!.webmd!.com/webx!?14@@!.5987f4!.!.!.

Do a google or yahoo search for cancer support groups in your city to find a local group!.

If you prefer group meetings, check to see who your doctor or hospital recommends, as usually they know of one or they can offer assistance on site!.

Good Luck with your treatment and I wish you positive and peaceful thoughts!.




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Sometimes the worst of your family shows through when going through this stuff!. It may be hard for you to understand, but in all likely hood, she wasnt offended, but scared out of her mind!. When people are forced to deal with the cancer of a loved one, they are forced to deal with the possibility that it can happen to them!. They get scared and they do/say things they really dont mean!. I know it doesnt make you feel any better to hear that, trust me, I know!. My family screwed me over every which way they could!. But, knowing why helps me forgive them!. The sad thing is that even though I know why they did what they did, it still changes the relationships!. I dont trust them and never will again!.

Honestly, I dont know that there is a best way to handle it!. Knowing what I know now, I would have just ignored it!.!.!.!. or better yet, never talked to them about it in the first place!. I hate this for you, but you need to realize now that this person is NOT going to be there for you during this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Go to that link, sign up, click on the colorful word "games", win fake money you recieve from games, then click on the green word "causes", then exchange the fake money for real money sent to charities for cancer!.

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Hav your parents tell her how much she hurt you!. Or maybe you should just say you are scared about your condition!. Ask where you get your treatment if they know of any support groups for you to join!. You need people who care about you now and if they are going through the same thing it will be even better!. Try Cancer Support Groups: Questions and Answers - National Cancer Institute
Explains how to find a support group suited to individual needs!. !.!.!. Often, support groups can help people affected by cancer feel less alone and can !.!.!.
www!.cancer!.gov/cancertopics/factsheet/!.!.!. !. Good luck!. Just keep thinking positive!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

It could be her way of coping, 'out of sight, out of mind'!. I'm sure she cares a lot about you deep down but doesn't know how to show it!. She's scared too!.

I know she's family, but sometimes you need to distance yourself from people like that, especially when you're not well!.

Feel free to send me an email if you ever need/want to talk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You can either sit here and feel sorry for yourself and cry about her words, or you can tell her to shove it by sending her a picture of a guy with his anus pulled apart!. The choice is yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just explain to her what your intentions were but you really should'nt explain yourself to her you have a right to be scared but maybe shes scared too good luck and god blessWww@Answer-Health@Com





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