My heart is crushed..I'm losing someone I love and I feel like dying..HELP!!?!


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My heart is crushed..I'm losing someone I love and I feel like dying..HELP!!?

One person that i love so much and care about had a terrible car accident 2 days ago...Everyone besides him died instantly,and he's in a very deep and serious coma.His body functions are working but he has lot of broken bones including his ribs,collar bone and a fracture on his skull.He has serious brain damage and hasn't gained consciousness yet.His brain and neural system hasn't reacted to the medicine he's been given.The doctors and brain surgeons say that he can only survive through miracles and my hope is fading each minute.

I feel like i'm dying as well,i feel miserable i can't eat,sleep or think about other stuff my mind is always on him and how much i love him..Please help me,have you been through something like this?Any suggestion or consolation is appreciated...

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1 week ago
He just passed away...


Answers:

I am so sorry for your loss. I know you feel helpless. But you have to remember that at least you did have him in your life. People that loved once are most likely to love again. He is now your angel above watching over you and if you take in your surroundings you will feel his spirit with you. Talk to him out loud. It sounds weird, but it helps. I lost my 6 yr old great niece on May 4th. Everytime I hear a Gwen Stefani song I can see her singing and dancing along with the song. One of that last things she did was see a Gwen Stefani concert, one of her biggest dreams at 6 yrs old. I take comfort in that her dream came true. It is going to take time, but you will get through this and you will always have those memories with him.




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