Cancer scares me!?!
Question:
Cancer scares me!?
Help I'm scared I will get cancer and that my heart my fail on me at any moment any suggestions to get over these fears? also I have a fear of never being able to get a girlfriend and feel I don;t have much time left because basically by the time i'm 30 i'm bald fat and miserable i'm 19 so 11 years left to live not much time consider 11 year olds don't consider themselves very old
Answers:
These things are a possibility in everyone. Any of us could drop dead right now, but you can't let it slow your stride, because then it makes it more likely that your fears will come true.
...and what's this with being 30 and bald and fat? Two of those things you definitely have a choice over. I'm 25, and still a virgin, and never had a girlfriend. I'm not saying, "Look at me! I'm fine..." No, I'm miserable, but what I am saying is that you're probably going to be better off than me in the long run.
BTW, if you are so worried about balding, makes sure to save up (and keep) $10,000 in your bank account. That way, if you do go bald when you're 30, you'll have enough for hairplugs. They look more and more realistic every year (improving the procedure).
Cheer up. You're not me, and you're not Asian, so don't fret.