How do you tell someone who loves you you have herpes?!


Question: How do you tell someone who loves you you have herpes!?
I've been with my boyfriend about eight months but we didn't have sex until about five months!. Right before hand I found out I had herpes type one but I take valtrex for it everday so I have no outbreaks and he won't get it!. But I feel like i'm lying to him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You need to tell him about this!. Just be open, honest and mature about it and have a serious private talk with him!. Who knows he could have been the one to give you herpes!. If not him then a past partner!. He should know so that he can get tested!. He may have herpes and not even know it!.
Valtrex is supposed to help suppress the virus, makes it less likely for you to pass herpes onto your partner and can even prevent out breaks!. Just be careful, if there is a possibility that he could find your Valtrex, then he may all ready know and just may not know how to bring that up into a conversation!. If he really loves you then having herpes should not matter!. Just take some precautions so that he doesn't get herpes!. Like you should be taking Valtrex regularly and never having sex when you feel the slightest symptoms of an out break!. You should be honest enough with your partner to let him know when you think an out break is coming!.
I am still living with the guy who gave me oral and genital herpes, I MIGHT be pregnant, and maybe even getting married some day!. Just ignore people like Courtney!.
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The C N guy here isn't a doctor!. He's a fraud, and it is a violation of law to pose as one!. I have herpes, and MY doctor told me that Valtrex is proven to reduce outbreaks AND the risks of transferring them to another person!. The risk isn't zero, but it's more than acceptable so that you can actually have sex!. The C N guy is a fraud!. My husband has no herpes, and I've been with him nine years!. I do not have sex with a developing or open sore, or even if I have a little itch!. However, I'm not God!. But for some reason, Valtrex actually prevented my husband from getting it for nine straight years!.

Again, C N is a fraud!. He gave wrong advice to another person on here with a medical question, and someone on the Yahoo! Answers really need to ban him!. All fifty states have laws against it, and it is also even against the law to go out in public and say "I am a doctor" when you are not!.

Have no further dealings with C N!. He obviously has no idea doctors actually have to take the Hippocratic Oath!.!.!. DO NO HARM!. He's doing just that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

"i have some good news and some bad news, i have herpes, however i just saved 15% on my car insurance by switching to Geico!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

I dont maybe you should tell him but if your totally abosoltley positive that hes not gonna get it i dont see why you have to tell him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

unfortunalty taking valtrax doesnt reduce the risk of transmission to him to zero so u need to tell him,Www@Answer-Health@Com

you will get dumped just so you know
just think would you stay with him!?
i bet not Www@Answer-Health@Com

no matter how careful you will be he must one day twig when the scars show, tell himWww@Answer-Health@Com

wow and your on ya! with this and not talking to him !?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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