Anal sex!?!
Question:
Anal sex!?
my bf wants to try it but i'm scared it will hurt or feel weird. he says the guy should only put the head and a little bit of the penis in thats why my friends told me it hurts and you lose control. please help i want to know if i should try it . hes into it but i know he will pull out if i don't want to do it. what are the problems with it? how does it feel? what do i need to know about it? also is it ok to use flavored condoms for sex?
Answers:
It can be very enjoyable if done right with a loving,understanding partner,Use a good quality water based lubricant and be sure your partner is being extra gentle and willing to stop if you experience any pain. It will take a few sessions before you are used to it but it is very pleasurable when done properly. There maybe a little pain at first while the anus is being stretched but it is temporary and you will not lose control of your bowels. There are really not any problems that result that are major just slight bleeding but nothing you can't handle and a bit of pain from the initial anal stretch. Just remember to use a good water based lubricant I recommend K-Y warming gel or astroglide. and of course the more relaxed you are the more pleasurable of an experience