Can a relationship with somone who has herpes work with somone who doesnt have h!
Question: Can a relationship with somone who has herpes work with somone who doesnt have herpes!?
I met this girl the other day that I really like!.We been talking for a good minute and she had jsut broke up with a guy she was with for 2 years that was cheating on her!.She went and got checked out and found out he gave her herpes!.She never told me what the doctor said when she went until recent!.She has genital herpes!.I felt so dissapointed, because I really like her!.I feel like now, there is no way and she even feels that anyone would wanna be with her because of that!.I feel like we really have a connection and its sad to know she has herpes!.I just would like some feedback on what others think about the situation and what would they do if they was in that same situation where they met somone they felt was the one they been looking for al lthere life but was hit with a bomb of them having herpes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I'm living proof that it is very possible!.
I have genital herpes and have had it for many years now!.
My husband and I have been together for over 14 years and he does NOT have genital herpes!.
We are careful of course!. We never engage in any type of sex if I suspect I'm about to have an outbreak and we certainly never have sex if I'm having an active outbreak!.
We are married, so obviously we don't use condoms on a regular basis!. I know the signs and symptoms of an outbreak and we simply avoid any contact during that time!.
We have a healthy child and I'm currently pregnant with our 2nd child and there have been no issues with any of that either!.
So the answer is yes, it is quite possible to have a relationship if one person has it and the other doesn't!.
If you really like her and feel you have a connection with her, don't throw it away because of herpes!. Just educate yourself about the virus!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have genital herpes and have had it for many years now!.
My husband and I have been together for over 14 years and he does NOT have genital herpes!.
We are careful of course!. We never engage in any type of sex if I suspect I'm about to have an outbreak and we certainly never have sex if I'm having an active outbreak!.
We are married, so obviously we don't use condoms on a regular basis!. I know the signs and symptoms of an outbreak and we simply avoid any contact during that time!.
We have a healthy child and I'm currently pregnant with our 2nd child and there have been no issues with any of that either!.
So the answer is yes, it is quite possible to have a relationship if one person has it and the other doesn't!.
If you really like her and feel you have a connection with her, don't throw it away because of herpes!. Just educate yourself about the virus!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Having herpes doesn't make someone less of a person and less able to be in a relationship, Seriously the only concern with dating someone with herpes is when it comes to SEX (not even having kids)!. If you are someone who just likes having casual partners and not relationships, then avoid an affected partner!. But if you are truly wanting to be with a person, have a little self-control, and know how to play it safe!.!.!.then its not the end of the road!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I say if you really like her it wouldn't matter!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you really like her, then you and she should talk about it when the topic of sex is appropriate to discuss!. Yes, a relationship can work when only one partner has Herpes, but great care must be taken for the disease to not be spread!.
Using condoms, and watching for outbreaks (so you can avoid sex during the outbreak), etc!. are all necessary, but should not get in the way of having an enriching, meaningful relationship - as long as both partners agree that it can work, and are willing to make a lot of effort to deal with it positively!.
Talk to her when the time is right, and see what happens!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Using condoms, and watching for outbreaks (so you can avoid sex during the outbreak), etc!. are all necessary, but should not get in the way of having an enriching, meaningful relationship - as long as both partners agree that it can work, and are willing to make a lot of effort to deal with it positively!.
Talk to her when the time is right, and see what happens!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
my bf and i have been together for almost two years!. I have it!. He doesnt!. We just had a baby together too! Please dont let a small thing like herpes get in the way!. its not a big deal!!! She can take meds for it now and she can tell when she is getting any kind of breakout!. Its like a cold sore!. People know when they are about to hve a cold sore!. They are called prodomes!.!.!.!.symptoms that happen before an outbreak!. Valtrex is a once a day medication she can take to supress the virus!. To be honest, i dont even take it until i feel a break out coming on!. My bf and i enjoy our sex life and i always know when im going to have a break out!. We stop for a week!. I take my meds!. It goes away and we get back on track!. While pregnant, i had to take my meds near the end!. I delivered vaginally!.
Herpes is not a big deal!! Now that i have had it for six years, it doesnt bother me anymore!. Im not embarassed about it either b/c 1/5 people have it!. Everyone always thinks of those gross pictures of herpes but thats only the first time and then it never is that bad after that first time!.
If i was you, i owuld continue to date her!. She was honest to tell you so you know she is a good person!. If you decide to end it, you may meet someone else in the future who isnt honest and gives it to you anyway!.!.!.!.thats what happened to me and thats what happened to her!. But if you know about it, it can be prevented!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Herpes is not a big deal!! Now that i have had it for six years, it doesnt bother me anymore!. Im not embarassed about it either b/c 1/5 people have it!. Everyone always thinks of those gross pictures of herpes but thats only the first time and then it never is that bad after that first time!.
If i was you, i owuld continue to date her!. She was honest to tell you so you know she is a good person!. If you decide to end it, you may meet someone else in the future who isnt honest and gives it to you anyway!.!.!.!.thats what happened to me and thats what happened to her!. But if you know about it, it can be prevented!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
"where they met somone they felt was the one they been looking for al lthere life"
In a few days !?!?!?!? I don't think so!.
That "belief" is the sort of immature attitude that compels youngsters to have sexual experiences long before they know what they are doing and why!.
Your friend did not get Herpes from a toilet seat!. Nor will you!. Stop and think about how you really feel!. If you are intimate with her and you contract it, what will happen wehen you and she break up (Oh, yes, statistically, you will)!? How will your next female hearthrob feel when you have to tell her you have it!?
THINK, KIDS !!!!
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In a few days !?!?!?!? I don't think so!.
That "belief" is the sort of immature attitude that compels youngsters to have sexual experiences long before they know what they are doing and why!.
Your friend did not get Herpes from a toilet seat!. Nor will you!. Stop and think about how you really feel!. If you are intimate with her and you contract it, what will happen wehen you and she break up (Oh, yes, statistically, you will)!? How will your next female hearthrob feel when you have to tell her you have it!?
THINK, KIDS !!!!
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