Relationship with herpes, please answer only if you have it ?!


Question: Relationship with herpes, please answer only if you have it !?
I got herpes from losing my virginity which was about 6 years ago!. i have been open and able to tell my ex's about it about 5 and they acted caring and considerate about it, i didnt use condoms with any of them, we just dont have sex when i have an outbreak or know about it before it comes!. my boyfriend of about 6 months, with whom i live with!. we slept together on our first date (i have been friends with him for 5 years though) i rarely get outbreaks anymore and take meds everyday to keep it away!. well the first 4-5 times we had sex we were really drunk and i didnt think about it til afterwards cause its not really a problem anymore!. but i never told my current boyfriend!. i just thought he wpuld have gotten upset if we had already slept together!. so for the past few months i have been living with a guilty bug in my stomach!. i only broke out once since i started dating him so we didnt have sex for like 2 weeks, it usually lasts only like 3 days but i give it a fews days so i dont expose my boyfriend to it!. we have never used condoms, i want to tell him but im afraid of what his reaction will be after it's been all this time!. i know what i did was not right!. should i tell him or let it go since we're past due!? if you think i should please give your opinion to help!. i know i made a mistake so please dont send mean or negative feedback!. thanksWww@Answer-Health@Com


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I would wonder if you still need to take the meds!? I caught herpes around 8 years ago!.!. I had the outbreak from my initial exposure and have never had an outbreak since!. I think people make a big deal out of herpes!. I think the meds are good for people that have outbreaks all the time, but I think the vast majority of people experience what I experienced!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell him but give the circumstances!. Living with the stress is not worth it and stress can lead to outbreaks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The truth shall set you free!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ur gonna die!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Not having sex when your on an out break helps but there s always a small risk of passing herpes on in between out breaks, even if condoms are used!. Meds also help to prevent you from passing herpes on!. You still run a small risk of passing herpes no matter how many or how frequently you get out breaks!.
Reactions are a variable and you never know for sure how some one will react to news like that!. If they love you enough for who you are then they shouldn't care about an std but they should want to take all of the precautions to prevent getting herpes, if they don't have it!.
You should absolutely tell your partner about this, specially since you have had sex!. If he gets herpes, he will be wondering from whom he could have gotten them from, then he may come to the conclusion that your cheating!. I don't mean to be mean, but you may want to prepare yourself from some rejection because not every guy can deal with some one who has genital herpes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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