My boyfriend will not get tested?!
Question: My boyfriend will not get tested!?
We are each other's firsts, and we have not done it without a condom!. He wants to, but I am concerned!. He doesn't want to get tested for any infections!. He keeps telling me he is fine!. I know he is, but for myself conscious I still want him to get tested!. I've had him in my mouth before and he says thats enough to know that he's not positive!. How can I convince him to take the test!? thank you in advance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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good for you stand your ground!. its always better to be safe than sorry!. HIV is a very serious epidemic!. make sure he wears a condom or gets tested!. the way to get him to get tested is just not to give in to him tell him no matter what unless he gets tested he has to wear a condom, he will eventually give in!. he can go to planned parenthood and get tested for free the first thursday of every month!. so he has no excuse!. 15 mins!. of pleasure is not worth dying for!
stay strong don't give in!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
stay strong don't give in!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
How can you be 100% sure that you are his first and only!?
Furthermore, there are cases of STD being passed on through the use of toilet seat and other means, not necessarily through sex!. So he can't be too sure unless he go for a test!. Even if he had gone for a test in the pass, how long ago was that and what type of test!?
This is not about conscious, but it can be a matter of life and death!. Very obviously he just want to have nicer feeling without any care/concern for your safety!. Why do you think all pragnant woman are offered HIV test!? Does it mean they have been sleeping around!? When they consent to the test, does that means it is an admission of infidelity!? No, they do it for the love of their unborn baby!. Just to be 100% sure that their baby is not expose to HIV!. So similarly, if he loves you, he should go for the test without second thought!. If not, seriously consider dumping him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Furthermore, there are cases of STD being passed on through the use of toilet seat and other means, not necessarily through sex!. So he can't be too sure unless he go for a test!. Even if he had gone for a test in the pass, how long ago was that and what type of test!?
This is not about conscious, but it can be a matter of life and death!. Very obviously he just want to have nicer feeling without any care/concern for your safety!. Why do you think all pragnant woman are offered HIV test!? Does it mean they have been sleeping around!? When they consent to the test, does that means it is an admission of infidelity!? No, they do it for the love of their unborn baby!. Just to be 100% sure that their baby is not expose to HIV!. So similarly, if he loves you, he should go for the test without second thought!. If not, seriously consider dumping him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That is great to know you have a conscious, most girls just go with the flow now a days!.!.!.I can understand where your concerns are coming from, this is an important decision, and you should have every right to feel this way, sit down and talk with each other!.!.!.let him know how bad this is affecting you, if he sees that this is an emotional toll on you, he should be the loving and caring guy you see him as, and go get tested!.!.!.i really hope this helps!.!.!.!!!?!?!
ALWAYS REMEMBER!.!.!.
TO GOD BLESS!.!.!.AND GET TESTS!!!?!!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
ALWAYS REMEMBER!.!.!.
TO GOD BLESS!.!.!.AND GET TESTS!!!?!!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you have any doubt AT ALL!!! tell him if he wants to be with you without a condom he will do it! You can NEVER be too careful when it comes to std's I had the same problem only he broke up with me cause i wouldnt put out!. A year later i found out he was HIV positive! Seriously! If i would have just let it go I could be dying right now!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he would really care about you, he would get tested!. NO ONE should be offended or upset if their new partner asks them to get tested!. YOU have a RIGHT to insist that he get tested!. You are trying to protect yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please do not do anything unless he gets tested! It isn't worth it!. Get the facts~life is to short!. If he can not come off his pride than you need to save it for someone who will!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you are both virgins, than you can't have any std's!. You may have a mean case of the stupids though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would guess it's a little late to be tested now or make an issue that may break you up, about it!. Does he insist the same about you !?Www@Answer-Health@Com
if he really wants to be with you then he will do whatever he can to make you happy!. in this case, get tested!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com