Anyone out there with compassion....?!
Question:
Anyone out there with compassion....?
My brother lives in France and has prostate cancer, he has had it out, but the PSA just keeps rising not much but going up, it is now 3.6. he has been told he will have chemo and the scans are in preparartion for that. How can the PSA levels go up when there is no prostate? Now today they have found it has gone to the liver, the bones are still OK.
I am very worried, Daaddy died of leukaemia just three months after we married in 1967, My mother died of pancreatic cancer in Octoebr 2005 and now Chris. he is 63.
I do have faith, but very scared....
Any compassionate words that would help welcome and prayers.
Thank you G
Answers:
Well i certainly feel for you , and will pray for you and yours,your bound ot be scared as you already knw its life changing for all involved faith is all well and good , and you always need something at times like this ,but often i wanted my faith to provide major miracles, when in actual fact ihave come to the conclusion its just to get you through , they will manage fine in the end as the strength in people like this astonishes me in fact encourages me i hope you get to spend some time around your brother .....its fine and normal to be scared the whole roller coaster of emotions you might be feeling now and in the future.
Im not sure what else to say as nothing can make you fell better but i will pray that you get peace that surpasses all understanding ......and im sure you know , but in case you have forgotten where faith in concerned feelings dont count , well what im trying to say is that dont think that cos your feelings are tearin you apart that thats a reflection on your faith as its not you rfaith will walk you through the pain though it wont eliminate it...i dont think i can tellyou anything you dont already know but having walked through this with my best friend though i dont know exactly how your feeling i know it hurts like hell....if you want to email me just to use me as an annoymous sounding board feel free ..mean while i will pray for your family...take care