My grandadughter passed away from Cancer 3 weeks ago and I am so full of anger..!


Question: My grandadughter passed away from Cancer 3 weeks ago and I am so full of anger..help please!?
She was 30 years old.The cancer was found during her pregnancy.Her husband never shed a tear and is off to Cuba on a 2 week vacation.He was power of attorney and would not allow my daughter to be with her when she died...her little sister is 9 years old and he would not allow her to put her teddy bear in her big sisters coffin..the whole funeral was about his family and there religion.There were no photos of her at the funeral of my granddaughter before she met him 3 years ago, it's like her life did not exists before him.

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Hmph...he sounds like my Uncle...sick. That is very sad that he wouldn't even allow your daughter to be with her when she died. And No Teddy Bear, Give me a break! What a poor excuse for a husband. I Hope he enjoys his precious vacation. I think you should have your OWN Memorial. Have a "remembering my Granddaughter Get together" Have a lovely meal, share photos of her, visit her grave site, do whatever you can to make it right and involve your daughter.



my wife's family is just like that but anyway the pain is going to b there for a wile but im not a big religious person but she is in a Better place she no longer suffers the pain the crew life we live she doesn't have to in dour any more tell that .hjfvgiebkjbtvte lol thats my choice words i cant say on here tell him off get him out of ur life and away sorry for ur lose best wishes to u



If it were me I would tell him exactly what I think.



I'm so sorry for the loss of your granddaughter, my friend.

Sadly, religious beliefs, and personal approaches to loss, differs in the way we approach matters.

As I don't know either your granddaughter or your grandson, and can't comment on their relationship, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on it. I do, however, feel sad for both yourself and your younger granddaughter not being able to express your loss in a way that feels comfortable to you and in a way that means something to you.

I can certainly appreciate your feelings of anguish, anxiety, and anger from the way things have proceeded. What I would ask is that you have your own little 'ceremony' and remember your granddaughter in the manner that you feel most comfortable with. I don't know how you feel about such things, but how about planting a rose bush or a tree in your granddaughter's memory? Something that you could care for in years to come ... something that would enable you to think of your granddaughter each time you tended to it ... something that will be here for a good many years to come.

I feel uncomfortable ending here as I feel that there needs to be something said that would alleviate the anxiety and anger that you're feeling. I'm truly sorry that I don't have the words in which to express myself. I pray that, given time, your feelings will subside and that you'll remember your granddaughter for the beautiful woman that she was.

Be Blessed.

Unfortunately, my dear friend, the link provided by Bok Inzerillo, which appears to be what's termed a Spambot, would serve you absolutely no use whatsoever. It's a link to a website that sells medications ... the same as that other Spambot, Lorraine Gainous.




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