How can one completely get rid of past hurts.?!

to fully get over some thing, you need to totally accept it ,no mental inner voices saying "this shouldn't have happened..i shouldn't have been treated this way"...it has happened clearly..so if you accept it now totally the pain will vanish. and by accepting it totally i mean almost as if you'd chosen it to happen .try this and see. good luck

you can't ..the mind is like a computer.everything you put into the memory stays there.you can hide the things you don't like or don't want (erase memory) but the disc will hold what you put on it even after total erase .but although you can suppress things that have happened and not think about them .they are always there,and now and again without warning they come back to bite you in the butt.memories are so ingrained that sometimes they are passed on to the offspring as instinct. or people remembering past lives under hypnosis.as time passes you will think of the hurts less and less.as they say time heals .

There is only the ending of something, not becoming something.
The past is like a shadow, making things dull and weary, in that shadow, the present looses its clarity, its freshness, and tomorrow is the continuation of the shadow.

The past is a corpse; don’t go through life carrying a casket on your back.
What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.

Can the mind look with an eye that is never tainted by the past.
Live in the moment otherwise love and happiness will not be.

Remember them. Make sure they cannot harm you again. Never lower your guard. Wait, those that hurt you will eventually go away. And you find when others that hurt you, have worse things happen to them. Victory is sweet. Remember, "what goes around, comes around"

WHAT IS BEST IN LIFE?
1. Live long
2. Outlast your enemies
3. Die strong

What past is past, let it go its a learning experience, if you could go back and change you might do the exact same... Why??...Because it took you to her to realise you made that mistakes. if you hurt some one saying Sorry works!! if they don't accept your Sorry that their problem!! Hope this helps...

It's a state of mind. Only you can let them go