Would you worry if you were me?!
Question:
Would you worry if you were me?
So i had sex with this guy who was once a heroin addict and a drug dealer.
he used to shoot up heroin 10 times a day and would sometimes sell drugs to prostitutes in return for sex.
In 2003 he was arrested and sentenced to time in jail. before going to jail he was given an HIV test. his blood tested negative for any HIV antibodies.
He is currently on parole and meets with his parole officer once a week. i have known him for eight months and we had sex for the first time about a week and a half ago.
first we had vaginal sex using a condom. then we had anal sex also using a condom, but it broke before he ejaculated. after about two unprotected thrusts i had realized it broke and made him put on a new one. he ejaculated into the condom.
he has a lot of pre ejaculatory fluid and i was bleeding after.
Should I be concerned about HIV? Would you be concerned if you were me?
Answers:
Clearly you are trying to temp fate.
First anal sex is more likely to get you infected with HIV than vaginal sex if he is positive, you said you were bleeding and guess what that means your insides were torn from the sex which allows HIV virus to enter your body.
Second if he is a drug user and frequents prostitutes its likely that he will have HIV either now or in the future.
Third, even if he has HIV and you use a condom your not 100% safe. Condoms break as you found out, and it only takes one microscopic virus in the right place to give you HIV.
If I were you I would see a mental health expert because your getting very close to suicidal behavior. That or your self estem is lower than it should be. This guy is a loser. And considering he appears to enjoy anal sex, one might wonder if he is bisexual and therefore has another risk factor for getting HIV.
Do yourself a favor and make a choice... write out your will and letters to all your loved ones because your killing yourself, or drop this guy and move on with your life.
At any rate check yourself in 6 months and then again in 1 year just to be safe.