To get HIV or an STD from a male, he has to ejaculate inside you? Thanks?!

To get HIV or an STD from a male, he has to ejaculate inside you? Thanks?

I've been having sex with a guy for a while, he told me he always gets tested b/c he travels so much with his job; to go into a country he has to do those tests. He said he got tested a yr ago and was neg. I had intercourse with him 1 night and he revealed something that frightened me a bit. he said i don't have hiv or anything b/c i don't have sex with men. i didn't say anything to him, but that statement to me was ignorant b/c you CAN get something from going with a female. Duh! That made it seem like he will do a girl without a condom, but im not saying he would. we have sex sometimes without a condom for 5 mins b/c he wants to "get aroused", then he puts the condom on and ejaculates into that. We sometimes also have sex totally without it and then he just ejaculates on my stomach or back...im scared b/c im wondering if he does it like that with his gf. he does have another gf in europe where he travels to (don't worry about the 2 gf's thing). im coming to Yahoo A b/c i didn't have time to ask him anything else and now im worried b/c after having sex 2 weeks ago i got a tiny bit of a sore throat, very tiny, didn't even bug me that much, and teribble headaches that lasted for a few days and i am having prickly sensations on my body. i am so ambivalent and confused b/c i have been under tremendous stress b/c i am in college and had exams. it was the most stressed ive been in in my life. and now that its sort of finsihed the headaches have subsided but i do still have the prickly on my skin. im wondering if it could all be just stress and the heat or did i catch something. b/c the symptoms i have are like an std. yet he never ejacualted into me, but it's never 100% sure. i will get tested soon so you don't have to tell me to get tested . i only want to hear opinions on what could be going on with me b/c he isnt back until a few weeks and im going crazy worrying. hes so far away that calling is jsut static e.t.c. i don't think i could have stds or hiv b/c he never ejacualted into me b/c we are dead set on watching out for becoming preggers and he was neg a yr ago. but i could be in danger b/c im having some physical stuff that is a bit like std symptoms. but im the kind of person who is a realist and think "you never know". if someone can give me some answers i thank you so much.

2 weeks ago
I don't know if I have syphilis. I looked it up too and some symptoms fit but they don't add up to my symptoms, because the major symptom is a sore. i saw a pic on wikipedia and i defintely did not have any type of sore like that on me....i now have knees that hurt a bit.

2 weeks ago
i don't know if mz_so_cal is right. some symptoms can be paranoia. and i am a person that worries a lot. i am a pessimist more than an optimist..i hope the mild knee pain is paranoia.

2 weeks ago
Amy L, the tingling is all over my body, but not in private. I looked up herpes and it seems to be the symptoms I'm having.

You can get a STD from oral sex, and by him penetrating you without condom,not ejaculating inside has nothing to do with it.
Look we can only speculate on your condition, for me I would be seeking medical opinion and blood tests, then you can act on the results good or bad.
You are dicing with contracting all types of Stds if he is being promiscuous whilst away.♥