I concerned, please help.?!


Question: I concerned, please help.?
we've been dating 4 months and official 2 and we've been great, I mean we are perfect together. Well recently we got in a fight due to jealousy. I try not to be jealous but I'll admit in relationships I am a bit paranoid and look into everything mainly because of cheating on girls in the past. So anyways the last few weeks my gf has been texting her friend Kenny all the time back and forth inside jokes and I know about it, she doesn't hide it but one night she didn't come over cuz her and him went to drink at the bar they work at which bothered me and we were at the mavs game and she just starts texting him out of nowhere and it just rubs me the wrong way. It would be different had they been friends like that before me but it's recent. She says I have nothing to worry about and she loves me which I accept. The last few weeks she hasn't seemed as crazy about me and we've barely been intimate in anyway and that's her call. So on Fat tues we are going out and this guy Kenny is at a bar by ours and she gives me her phone in case he calls. That pissed me off, granted I had 3 drinks already. Well we go to the bar and I basically blackout from the beginning to my brother and roomate asking me what I did as my girlfriend is hysterical. Apparently we got into it and I started throwing things around and I pushed her against the wall and she fell to the carpet and all this stuff. She was so scared and i have no idea what happened. I've never ever been physical with a girl in my life or even had to hold myself back from it. It's insane because we were so in love, we worked through it a bit and she is giving me another chance but says she can't forget what happened and it's not right and she deserves better. She's right about it should have never happened, I am so sorry and apologizes over and over but I am a good man and I treat her so well and I want to be with her. It's been a week since it happened and we are taking a road trip to LA that we originally planned to hangout.

Answers:

I dont quite understand your question but some great advice to take is. If you black out when drinking Don't drink apparently it cause's all the stuff you been holding back and building up to surface.Putting hands on your partner in life is never ever excuseable no matter gender . you might also try seeking help through counsling or anger managment class for your on good once laying hands on some one it gets eaiser to do and will happen more frequantly. Please get help for your self and your partners safety. PLEASE DON"T DRINK.

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