Omygod I'm hyperventilating! 10 points?! Please?!?!?!?!


Question: Omygod I'm hyperventilating! 10 points?! Please?!?!?!?
Ok so I like this guy...a lot. And I told him but he said he didn't have time for a relationship and he still wanted to be friends. So we talk like every say and my parents are really strict and i've never been to a guys house or anything and he invited me over for us to hang out and idk what to do I wanna go sooooooo bad but idk how to get my parents to let me gooooooo. PLEASE and nobody say "just tell them and see what they say" and my mom knows that I liked him but tonight I told her we were just friends.....HELP

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Honestly the best cover ups is that you want to study or that you want to work on a project. Since most parents dont keep up with stuff like that they should believe it. But honestly there has got to be some way you can talk to them and explain, IDK how strict ur parents are but mine are pretty strict to and all I do is talk to them (since I have this talent for convincing adults) and negotiate a deal with them. I'm Sure you'll figure out a way :p



I know this is going to sound horrible, but if you dont want to tell your parents the truth about it and its just going to be friends hanging out...then either bring another one of your friends with and say your just at your other friends house, say your going shopping (if your old enough to drive yourself and be shopping alone). i know its not right to lie, but if you really want to. or always talk to your parents and have them talk to his parents. i hope this helps.



Don't really know why this is under the respiratory diseases but.... you really have only two options. You could escape from your house and sneak over there, which could very well get you into some degree of trouble or you could ask your parents. Tell them that there will be an adult present, and maybe you could find a friend of yours to go with you as a chaperone. for your hyperventilating get a paper bag and breath into it.

common sense



Firstly, if your really hyperventilating, breath into you hands. I have anxiety attacks all the time.
Anyway, you need to sit down with your mom and have a real talk abotu how your getting older, more responsable, and you really feel like your ready to go to a boys house. Make sure sure to tell her that you're just friends, you have values and wont do anythings stupid, and that his parents will be there (if they will). If she's not buying it, offer to have her speak to his parents. That ususally does the trick.



Since your parents are strict about it, you could ask them if he could come over to hang out or watch a movie at your house as they would then be able to keep an eye on you and make sure you're safe and nothing is happening. And if that doesn't work, tell them you're going to a girl friends but go to his instead. Just don't get caught, and be safe! ;D



House rules...your parents said no...don't go against them. For this guy to ask you over to his parent's house is really shady. He knows you like him...he doesn't want a relationship...therefore he likely wants sex.

Forget it. He doesn't want the same thing do. If he makes out with you or has sex...he's just using you because he knows you like him.

They'll be others. JUst behave, stay in school and mind your parents.



Tell your mom that he's just having some friends over, some of his friends are going to be there- both boys & girls, some of them are your friends & he asked you to go. So because you told her you guys are just friends, just tell her that it's just a group of friends all hanging out



This is silly...

Tell you what, TAKE A RISK, I doubt your parents will have any serious punishments for something like this, they should understand, jesus christ, u just like a boy, just go ahead and do it, and don't tell them, you can play the "I couldn't help myself" card afterwards.

Bottom line, this will ALWAYS linger in your conscience if you don't do something about it.



heres a suggestion completely off topic from this.
not to be rude or anything but i dont believe that this is under the right category
i think youll get way more answers if you repost this in a category more related to the trouble your having

Just a suggestion...




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