He left after I told him about HPV. Help!!?!


Question: He left after I told him about HPV. Help!!?
I dated this guy for about 2 months. We had oral sex 3x, but I did not tell him I had hpv since my doctor told me it was not necessary to go through this drama when approximately 1 in 2 men have it. Also, I had my first (and only) outbreak 5 years ago! My warts were treated and I have not had one since.

I told him about my warts I had 5 years ago and he was really angry and scared. I told him that I did not put him at risk, it is not a big deal and there is a vaccine out there. I gave him the number to the CDC, and gave him tons of credible sites to get information from. I told him my story and nothing!

He decided to leave me the next day b/c he felt betrayed and felt like he did when he found out his ex cheated on him. Ouch! I showed him tons of facts and nothing would get to him. He then told me how he spoke to his "friend's mom" and this lady told him tons of scary things. I got angry at how he did not read my articles, he did not go to a doctor and he is overreacting! I told him that the information he got was not true and it's not worth ending something nice over this.

He blocked me on facebook and got back with his abusive ex the next day! Before we ended he was already talking about how he needed a week to think about if he wants to invest in me or not cuz of my "hectic work schedule, busy study life, and how I might have to leave for school in a year". Yeah, a break after 2 months of dating!! I feel that he took my confession as his way out to be with his ex and has basically caused me to feel terrible! He never gave me a chance to talk about how it's not really a problem! What do you think??

Answers:

Woahh what an ***! Sweety honestly men are complete dogs if he could accept the fact this was in your past and you educated your self about your problem and you know the terms and conditions! He shouldve taken your word on it. Anywhos if he can't accept that you was trying to be open with him then time to move on its only been 2mnths and look how he's acting you don't want him throwing it in your face either! He's worthless



I think you have just discovered your silver lining. Apparently, HPV scares away men who aren't worth having. And he's gone back to an abusive GF, so it sounds like his behaviour will be its own punishment.



1 in 2 men have it? That's bull **** maybe 1 in 2 females but its hard for men to catch HPV you should have told him b4 you did the dirty regardless Even if those were the right stats he could have been that 1 in 2 men who didn't have it before.

In fact it should be against the law to know you have ANY STD (not just hiv) and do that **** without telling the other person.

So yea just go around spreading life long diseases to people because you hear some bull **** stats a doctor made up to make you feel better.

If you have an STD you should only mess with others with the same std to prevent that **** from spreading any further




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