Is my life worth living at all?!
Question: I am 12,140 lbs,I have pimples,I have a big nose.... does my life suck or what. I get called fat. Most people say I'm not but I feel i am. I hate my moms house where I live...I'm just to far from pretty to be happy. What should I do?
Answers: I am 12,140 lbs,I have pimples,I have a big nose.... does my life suck or what. I get called fat. Most people say I'm not but I feel i am. I hate my moms house where I live...I'm just to far from pretty to be happy. What should I do?
Yes. You are nice and I like your pink hat.
Stop being so self concious.
just don't start poping pills. my friend started doing that so i took them away from her and threw them away.( Tylonol Ibuprofemand advil.
pimples are part of your puberty. get over it. if you want to lose weight youve gotta stop eating and exercise.
There are lives much, much, much worse than yours. You just need to grow up. And hopefully you will eventually.
yes, your life is woth living...there are a ton of satisfying things you can still accomplish without being rich or a supermodel.
the pimples will probably go away by the time you're in your late 20's, and there is alot you can do about your weight through diet and excercise.
stop eating unhealthy food, diet, exercise, play sports, be confident in yourself, acne passes..i dealt with it for 6 years before it went away. you should never give up
You have a couple of options. 1. Get some exercise as 140 at 12 is fat unless you're very tall. 2. Commit suicide. 3. Suck it up and do something productive with your life.
Every one is ugly around 11-14 years old, trust me. We all went through that same awkward stage. I promise you that you will grow into your "big nose", and your zits will go away when your hormones settle down. Focus on living a HEALTHY life, and the rest will fall into place. If you start tanning and messing with your health/body to try to look good at such a young age, I guarantee you you will look horrible as an adult because of all the abuse. Stay healthy, exercise, EAT and eat right, and just use an over the counter zit cream. You'll see better days, I promise.
yes of corse your life is worth living. youre only 12... your life will be dramatically changing over the next few years. youre so young you can mold your life into however you want.. just stick in there and make the best of things. work on areas of yourself and your life situations youd like to change, and it will ... good luck and enjoy lifes experiences, good and bad ; )
Life is meant to suck when you're 12! Trust me, it sucks just as bad later too if you let it.
Sit down and make a list of the GOOD things in your life and YES there are good things. Sit there till you've made a list you can focus on. Carry the list and keep focussing on the positive side of life.
We have kilograms not pounds here so I can't comment on your weight but check out what your height for weight ratio should be. Get an accurate goal which makes you happy - not the rest of the world YOU because you are the most important person. Make educated choices about your body.
Hang in there
Puberty/teen years is one of the roughest parts of everyones life. Your body becomes ugly and different temporarily. Your friends' attitudes change. It can get overwhelming.
It's kinda a gets worse before it gets better thing.
join the school's marching band
You are WAY too hard on yourself. Lots of kids your age feel the same as you do about your body. Lots of WOMEN feel the same way. Most kids your age get pimples too. You are not doomed to stay 140 lbs if you really want to change. Even if you do, figure out what your strong points are and USE them. I know you think it's all about how you look but as you grow up and mature, you'll find out it's really about what's inside. Beautiful on the inside is beautiful on the outside.
Love yourself and others will love you too.
a lot of people get thru life without winning beauty contests. You'll be ok. 12 is a hard age. Watch what you eat, keep your face clean, go to a dermatologist if you need to. Try to be positive and upbeat. A good attitude makes a person seem more attractive. Beauty really comes from within.
There are people starving to death and who are suffering from things that are far worse than just being ugly or just ahving a few zits. Just be happy with yourself. Things could be a lot worse.
Have confidence in yourself and if you are a little overweight do something about instead of feeling sorry for yourself start eating healthier and by eating healthier your skin will clear up and you will probably feel a lot better because of it. There are a lot of benefits to looking on the bright side of things and eating better.
Just don't listen to all those idiots who call you fat. they're stupid!!! Sometimes people call me fat too, and I have the same problem with stupid pimples! Everyone has a different nose and that's how god made you. About the bad house at your mom's place, try telling her that she needs to remodel the house a bit. Not everyone's pretty and most people aren't, just believe in yourself and YES your life is defiantly worth living because God loves you!
Just believe in yourself. Don't let anyone get you down. Be strong and confident in yourself.. always keep your head up.
Your young and life is precious believe it or not.There are many more people with many more problems than you. You should be happy your you not because you look a certain way. Theres people that weight half what you do, be glad to have the food you eat and the roof you have over your head cause others don't have what you hate. Be glad what God gave you, it makes you you.... :)
B i t c h! aint nothin wrong with your life. Your a little over weight and you got pimples. What the fuc,k you act like you got a child or you're a drug addict. people lifes way worse than yours,
people gettin shot and killed everyday for nothin at all, people stuck in the projects where they get beat up and raped!
kids in Africa starvin to death, people got fuckin
HIV / AIDS and yo as,s is complanin that your life isn't worth livin. I MEAN SHI,T you as,s outta die fo talkin so dam,n stupid!
have you ever heard of Jesus Christ. I'm being completely serious...since I put my whole trust in Him to save me from all of my imperfections and insecurities and sins, I've discovered that life isn't so terrible after all. I think you should try to get involved in a youth group with a church somewhere in your area and get some adults involved in your life that will help you and lead you in the right way. It will not only encourage you but you may just find alot of things in your life worth living for. The bible says "man looks at the outward appearance, but God looks at the heart" If you can get ahold of a bible I would recommend reading the gospel of John. Remember that even though life can get hard, God made you for a reason and wants you to choose to be His child. That's all that really matters in life, is honoring God and the life He's given you!!
A lot of kids get called fat at school. A lot of kids get pimples. I had big boobs when I was 12, they were a size FF...when I got em reduced I still didn't have the perfect nose, but I let it slide because it added character and I was just relieved to have a normal sized chest.
There are some things you can do to treat your acne, a lot of them are just changes you can make to your diet. Stuff like cutting out dairy, chocolate, eggs, fried foods..eating more fish, fresh vegetables, fruit...Trust me, I had the worst acne when I was your age, and when I bought a $200 bottle of acne treatment due to my dermatologists' advice, it told me to change my diet right on the pill bottle...after all that time when my doctor said diet doesn't cause it.
Big noses are relative. What may seem like a big nose to you may not be to another person. You can't really judge yourself compared to how other 12 year olds judge you (or how TV measures people, because they are just trying to increase business for plastic surgeons). Kids are mean sometimes, and the person who is mean to you is probably mean to everyone. So let it be a reflection of his/her insecurities-it's nothing to do with you.
Try looking at the things you like about yourself instead. If you had to list 10 positive things about yourself, what would they be? Focusing on this every day may help build up your confidence. Maybe try getting into a small club with other kids you can talk to-that might help too.
I was 150 pounds when I was 12 too, so I know how that is.
Try sticking to a diet of fruits vegetables and fish and do some walking every day. It should help you lose some weight if you need to. But sometimes 140 pounds is just the best weight to be at for the frame we have. Muscle weighs more than fat so you might have gained muscle from any activities you did.
When you get into junior high, try to go to an all girls school.
The teasing from guys tend to gets worse in the higher levels up until grade 10, and you don't need to deal with that.
Anyone who said suicide is an option is full of s***. I'm sorry, but that's ridiculous. You shouldn't even be thinking like that.
Yeah, you may be only 12 and such, but come on. All the stuff you are complaining about, having a big nose, pimples, everyone gets that stuff. And if you think of someone who doesn't, they're either hiding it with make-up, or super lucky. Everyone has their own problems with their bodies, and making other people feel bad apparently helps them. I'm not suggesting making fun of people. I'm saying you shouldn't care what other people say or think about you. I know that's really hard advice to listen to, and sometimes I can't even follow it, nor can everyone else, yeah, people get to you sometimes. But that only means they've got some serious issues too. Some people are seriously ridiculous enough to make fun of others has got problems, and just needs to be set straight. And if it's people who are skinner than you (which I'm guessing), then yes, they've got some very personal problems too. Just be glad that you don't have it that bad to need to make fun of others.
Another thing, there's people all over this world who would love to be 140lbs. Have you ever thought of the genocide going on in Darfur? How right now, women and children and men are being starved and dehydrated, tortured and killed, and we're all sitting on our butts, playing video games, screwing around on the internet, calling each other names and making fun. America is a pretty screwed up place. We've got it very, very good and no one knows it. What about Africa. All the little kids with AIDS, dying, not even knowing what a life is. How great life is. How great your life, my life, everyone's lives are. How great they're life could be. And I'm not trying to make you feel bad or anything like that, I'm just saying, America needs to take a few reality checks, and then reset our priorities.
People die everyday in other countries, are murdered, tortured, killed, raped, diseased, and you think you've got it bad? I bet anyone in Darfur, anyone in Africa would love to be living your life right now. Love too. Would give anything in the world, to be you. You aren't dying right now, keep your life, live your life, be happy you have a life, and you aren't going to die soon, that you'll grow up, see the world, become a beautiful, loving person with great friends and a family, and that you'll be strong, and just.. have a life.
Be thankful for what you have, stop looking at yourself with a magnifing glass, ignore rude, mean, nasty, and stupid people. You just wait, you may be heavy now, but let's see who grows out of it (meaning you) and whose going to be putting on the pounds (them).
But don't suddenly think you've got the right to talk back to them; seriously, karma has its ways, you just wait. It may take days, years, decades, but the karma is always, I promise, always going to come back.
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