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Question: i hate myself so much. i'm not happy in life. i want to be the girl in school who all the guys like. i'm over obsessive about calories and eating and whenever i mess up on my diet i binge eat. i'm gaing weight instead of losing. i want to have the perfect body but i just cant do it.i get barely any attention from guys. I have the ugliest legs in the world and i cry over them everyday. They are veiny, fat, pale, and i have wrinkly knees and cankles. I'm not overweight but i dont have a good body. I used to think my face was pretty but i've had people tell me im ugly and i dont think so anymore. i hate how my thighs touch hate the bulge in my stomach. i cry everyday. i hate myself so much and hate my life. all i do is look at people and think of how much they enjoy themselves and how pretty they are. ugh im done!!! iknow for a fact i wont be happy unless i have the perfect body.


Answers: i hate myself so much. i'm not happy in life. i want to be the girl in school who all the guys like. i'm over obsessive about calories and eating and whenever i mess up on my diet i binge eat. i'm gaing weight instead of losing. i want to have the perfect body but i just cant do it.i get barely any attention from guys. I have the ugliest legs in the world and i cry over them everyday. They are veiny, fat, pale, and i have wrinkly knees and cankles. I'm not overweight but i dont have a good body. I used to think my face was pretty but i've had people tell me im ugly and i dont think so anymore. i hate how my thighs touch hate the bulge in my stomach. i cry everyday. i hate myself so much and hate my life. all i do is look at people and think of how much they enjoy themselves and how pretty they are. ugh im done!!! iknow for a fact i wont be happy unless i have the perfect body.

Oh, sweetie. Even the models that are on TV and magazines don't have the perfect bodies! I have seen documentaries that show how their boobs get held up with duct tape when they are on display! I really doubt that you have "the ugliest legs in the world". The morons that tell you that you are ugly are just being stupid! I speak from experience: NOBODY has the perfect body - and that's OK! The formula is: first, you need to be happy with yourself. THEN, you will have the motivation to eat right, exercise and drink lots of good water.

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(((((HUGS)))))

You need real life counseling.
You're looking too much into a social mirror, and this way, you're never going to be happy. You're going to die striving for this perfect body.

girl, no one has the prefect body, everyone has their flaws. even the super-skiny models have flaws. some men thing some flaws are cute. for example some guys like small girls(im small but i have to deal with it and some guys like me for being small), of girls with long legs(my cousin has long legs that she hates), or big boobs(my friend hates hers but guys still liker her), or they like noses(my friends os flat but fguys still love her), . u r too young to worry about that. just wait, in a couple years guys will like u. guys may already like u but are too ashamed to admit it. u may a lready get notices. worry about school and guys will come later, your bodys still growing

I want to answer your question,but without trivializing your concerns or making you feel worse.You have undoubtably heard the saying that everyone developes at different rates. Well,to a degree its very true.Physically,some females have very thin features,others curvy and bigger breasted,and some are simply those that seem to us,as teenagers,to be 'the perfect' body,and lead the perfect life,with all the right people.
And,admittedly,those of us that don't seem to fit that criteria,
feel that we,as females have failed somehow. Well, You have NOT FAILED. And ANYONE that tells you that you're ugly, is
really NOT as happy you think.Genuinly happy people don't
usually take pleasure in hurting others that brutally. I find it interesting that YOU yourself said,'I used to think I had a pretty face'. Dont let what a bunch of teen girls who think that 'near
death' is the new skinny, and airbrushed supermodels with air in their heads, is the new 'ideal woman' ,set you off course.
There is NO PERFECT BODY.Nobody has it. In fact I'll be
honest with you. I ADMIRE YOU. why? Because YOU have what I didn't,and probobly thousands of other females DONT have. That something is this. There IS self esteem and self worth inside yourself. Reread what you wrote.'I'm not overweight.'and insted of 'I used to think my face was pretty..'
maybe go back to, 'My face is pretty'. focus on what YOU DO
like about yourself. And honestly.Diets NEVER work. One of the best things I ever did was see a Registerd Dietition.I had
A terrible eating disorder that started at 15,and it nearly took my life.I wouldnt dream of comparing our situations.I only bring mine up in the hopes that it may help you know that you aren't feeling things that are unfamiliar to another. I'm reluctant to add this part,but I will. Those girls you mentioned,that get all the guys? They burn out fast! All they have sometimes is there looks.Its sad in a way. Having a PERFECT anything IS NOT
going to make you happier.In this case,it may even kill you.
Binge eating is SO hard on your heart. I had the days and nights of crying too.Its hell.and my heart goes out to you. Do you have things in your life that you're really good at,that make you happy,make you feel proud that you can accomplish?
If so,Target these things,make time for things that really matter to you. Be it through volunteer work,extra curicular
activities,groups that interest you.You may find that you start to see yourself in a different light. Because if your self esteem is hightened in other ways, you just might find that you have the strenghth to see the beauty,not just inside yourself, but also on the outside. If your eating habits are changing to the point where you feel "out of conrol" or that you are resorting to starving then binging/purging etc...PLEASE see your doctor. Dont let it get out of hand. It can ruin your life,destroy your health permanently,and sometimes take your life. A good dietition can be a great help. If you need to see more than one,thats ok. I'm assuming your a teen. Guys are not always
appropiate as teenagers.Girls either. Theyre not always really bad,but some can be cruel. I agree, its nice to be liked! But
If you feel you have to do unhealthy things to be liked by certain people, ARE THOSE PEOPLE really worth being
like by? PLs, again understand that Iam bot trying to trivialize your feelings. I just want you to know that I THINK you're smart, and insightfull. I think that maybe you just need thr RIGHT people to encourage that. This may sound like a cliche' .....
But , teen yrs ARE THE WORST. and if you can get through them, you can do anything you set your mind to. I hope I've helped a little. Please know that you're not alone.





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