Flat chested?!
Question: Alright, well I'm 14 1/2 in 9th grade, and I used to be happy with my size, but then I joined cross country, and such intense work outs decreased my body fat..therefore, shrinking my boobs. (a cup size) and I also have been vegetarian for a year, so that's decreased my body fat also.
And I didn't think I was that flat, but people are making fun of me! And it's really getting to me. One of my 'friends' who doesn't have much herself just randomly told me I was flat, and another one laughed and agreed.
And another friend who also doesn't have much herself! told me the same thing.
It's really hurting my feelings and I was at the mall yesterday and in the dressing room I hated trying on shirts and didn't buy any because I thought all of them made me look flatter than I am.
What should I do? When people tell me that I'm flat I'm just like, "Well why don't you start running 3 or more miles 6 days a week and see what happens to your boobs." But it still hurts my feelings.
Answers: Alright, well I'm 14 1/2 in 9th grade, and I used to be happy with my size, but then I joined cross country, and such intense work outs decreased my body fat..therefore, shrinking my boobs. (a cup size) and I also have been vegetarian for a year, so that's decreased my body fat also.
And I didn't think I was that flat, but people are making fun of me! And it's really getting to me. One of my 'friends' who doesn't have much herself just randomly told me I was flat, and another one laughed and agreed.
And another friend who also doesn't have much herself! told me the same thing.
It's really hurting my feelings and I was at the mall yesterday and in the dressing room I hated trying on shirts and didn't buy any because I thought all of them made me look flatter than I am.
What should I do? When people tell me that I'm flat I'm just like, "Well why don't you start running 3 or more miles 6 days a week and see what happens to your boobs." But it still hurts my feelings.
Of course it hurts your feelings. It always hurts when a so called "friend" makes fun of something you cannot control.
It's easy to say this, but just try to ignore them. You could tell them that they are hurting your feelings, and since they "don't have much of anything" they should back off. You're 14, your boobs will get bigger. Trust me.
Try and look at the fact that you are athletic and healthy...trust me---that is very sexy to guys.
Good luck.
don't take it too personally, they are probably just kidding around with you. almost all of my friends are flat chested and they just make jokes about them being that way all the time. I have a bigger chest than most of my grade and I don't really like it too much. For instance, I have to buy about 3 sizes up than I really am in zipper dresses because they don't fit my bust and yesterday I bought a cute hoodie (all my friends and I are usually the same sizes so when my other friend didn't want it i took it from her and dind't ry it on) but i found out it doesn't fit around my chest. once you joke about it yourself people won't try to annoy you so much, just be happy with yourself and your boobs. haha
I would not worry about this. Girls at your age tend to have low self esteem, so they attack other girls in order to feel better about their own bodies.
Wow this reminds me so much of myself. I know exactly how you feel! When I was 14 (I'm 20 now) I played 3 sports and all my friends made fun of me for being flat. But, you have it right; it's because you are in shape and have a lower body fat percentage. Nothing is wrong with you hun. I learned that I actually like having a smaller chest because boobs just get in your way when you are playing sports or running. Plus, you can buy cute tank tops that girls with bigger boobs can't wear without looking slutty.
I know how it feels when people comment about your chest size, but believe me, you should want to be healthy and in shape.
you are just fine. don't worry about how others see you. if you are happy, to heck with them. many guys like a small chest anyways. real friends don't tease you about your body.
Enjoy being thin and if your lucky, you'll stay that way.
i had an annulment wife that was a 30AAA cup and i can tell u it didn't bother me that her boobs were that small, it never bothered her because it didn't make up who she was inside and it shouldn't bother you either.
one thing about it is u will never have back problems due to carrying extra weight of larger boobs around all your life as many others have had to.
GOD gave u life and loves you just the way you are. at 14 peer pressure is great and no matter what anyone says about the old addage: "sticks and stones will break my bones, but names will never hurt me" must have said that after they were outta school because words do hurt, but all i can say is wait a few more years and all those naysayers will go away. i'm sure u r a beautiful young lady and will have many guys come a courting who will not care what outside attributes u have but who u are inside that will mean everything to them.
good luck and GOD bless.
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I think that you should continue running and taking care of yourself as you are doing.
Please don't let others' opinions rule your way of thinking! The chest (breast) muscles that you are creating now will put those other women to shame in 10 years. If you choose to have kids, your boobs and nips will be still pointin' to the sky, while theirs will be lookin' at the ground.
BTW, if they're not working out like you, watch them buy bigger jeans (butt), as you still fit into a 2 or 3!
To heck with big boobs. Your posture and the way you carry yourself will show confidence. When you're 15 or 16, you'll be the one gettin' the dates with the hotties. Stand your ground---no such thing as a "flat chick". Use your eyes! If people won't look into your eyes, you need not worry if they're your friends--they're not! Yes, I mean guys and girls.
Concentrate on running. Put your "hurt" into pounding the pavement.
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