How do i help my girlfriend?!
Question: She has more than one problem and im out of options or ideas
Shes obessed with losing weight so she doesnt eat or drink properly. Ive tried to explain it isnt healthy this way and doesn't work this way either. She tells me she knows all this but its not that simple and she cant help it what her head tells her!!!! She is a little over weight but how can i get through to her? Her family dont help as they always take the mick out of her weight and put her down. She still lives at home.
She has this itchy rash all over her body recently. She has cream and tablets for it but it doesnt work. Ive used teatree oil which works but i dont see her everyday to make sure she uses it, and i know she doesn't.
Shes a NIGHTMARE to get to the Doctors. She just wont go unless shes physically in serious pain with something. Its like shes scared to find ot if somethings wrong. Ive offered to go with her, but she says no. She tells me she'd rather NOT know.
Please Help
Answers: She has more than one problem and im out of options or ideas
Shes obessed with losing weight so she doesnt eat or drink properly. Ive tried to explain it isnt healthy this way and doesn't work this way either. She tells me she knows all this but its not that simple and she cant help it what her head tells her!!!! She is a little over weight but how can i get through to her? Her family dont help as they always take the mick out of her weight and put her down. She still lives at home.
She has this itchy rash all over her body recently. She has cream and tablets for it but it doesnt work. Ive used teatree oil which works but i dont see her everyday to make sure she uses it, and i know she doesn't.
Shes a NIGHTMARE to get to the Doctors. She just wont go unless shes physically in serious pain with something. Its like shes scared to find ot if somethings wrong. Ive offered to go with her, but she says no. She tells me she'd rather NOT know.
Please Help
What do you think it might be? Anorexia or Buleimia?
Have you thought about moving out together? If her family is constantly putting her down, maybe she needs to get out of that environment.
well she has issues with her self esteem and she needs to learn to be happy with herself. If she wants to loose weight she needs to quit feeling sorry for herself and just do it. I know you love her, but you just have to show her that you love her regardless. She is the only one that can change what she doesnt like about herself, and no matter what you say, she will still feel sorry for herself. Maybe she should see a councler. She needs to learn to love her self first. She seems more depressed .... sleeping is also apart of depression. Im sorry to say but if she doesnt change this horrible behavior of constantly putting herself down, then maybe its time to move on. Its ok to be there for some one, but another to deal with their constant depression. Havnt you heard the saying " Misery loves company...."