My girlfriend has gained some weight, how can i confront her about it?!
Question: me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and when we first started dating she was like 118lbs (shes 5'2", 20 years old, and she has a small frame) but now shes like 140 lbs. how can i politely talk to her about this? i want to talk to her about it because lately shes been acting really insecure about herself.
Answers: me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and when we first started dating she was like 118lbs (shes 5'2", 20 years old, and she has a small frame) but now shes like 140 lbs. how can i politely talk to her about this? i want to talk to her about it because lately shes been acting really insecure about herself.
tell her that YOU want to start eating healthier and she will join
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Sorry bud there is no nice way for you to do this. I did the same thing when I started dating my ex. Its all you guys are evil!!! just joking It's generally the social aspect of things:eating out, drinking, eating different foods, trying to keep up with what you eat, combined with lack of physical exercise. Maybe you should suggest physically active dates, or blame it on yourself say I really want to get in shape will you be my workout buddy? That way you aren't saying Look girl you blew up and need to fix it.
i would tell her that YOU wanna get healthier and ask her if she'd join you for support i.e eating healthier and going to the gym and for long romantic walks. also you should start cooking healthier meals in the evening for the both of you and she will feel thankful that you are cooking fo her!
Be kind about it and suggest that if she wants to lose weight she needs to go on a diet. And let her know that you love no matter her weight. Just show love and compassion like you've never done before.
Depending on how you approach her I don't think she'll be too upset. Try asking her if she'd be up for working out together. However you do it, just be really sensitive to her feellings.
Make it all about you. Don't accuse her of anything, and don't even suggest that you think she's getting chunky.
Say something like, "I think it would be really fun if we started walking together" or "I need to lose this gut but I'm just not motivated... do you think you could help me?"
Make her feel like she needs to be a good influence on you to guarantee your success. Switch it around and make it seem like you're the one with the problem... not her.
Bad step! She'll get upset and think about if you would have a problem in the future if she got pregnant and put on weight etc. She'll think you only like her for her looks and not personallity... Just surgest that YOU want to start eatting healthy and exercising and help her... It takes ALOT of will power! Or just tell her straight but in a joking manner
first off, 140lbs isn't that much weight. And it's shame that you care about her weight so much. If you love her, you love her for who she is. Wheter it be 100lbs or 200. I can't stand people like you. All caught up in this stupid "thin is beautiful" bullcrap. Get your head out of the media skinny fenzy and love her, 140lbs and all. If she feels she needs to lose weight, she will, the last thing she needs is for you to bring it up and make her feel worse about herself. jeez.
Why not suggest you start jogging together or take up dancing or a sport of some kind which you both enjoy. Something to keep you both fit and in shape.
You could also try cooking some healthy meals for you both. Don't make this about her weight, make this about both of you being healthy and fit.
Hope this helps.
your a jerk shes at a great weight shes actually a whole lot healthier than she was before she deserves much better than you i mean you are a total jerk