My girlfriend is 5'3 and about 120 lbs.?!
Question: How do I encourage her to lose weight without sounding like a jerk.
Answers: How do I encourage her to lose weight without sounding like a jerk.
Tell her you want to loose some weight yourself and ask if she'll support you by dieting too!
-Smegma
She sounds like she's at a healthy weight. But if you really want her to lose some pounds, encourage her to work out a little more and cut back on sweets. NEVER TELL HER DIRECTLY TO LOSE WEIGHT or she will leave you and become very depressed.
If you are encouraging her to lose weight at that weight and height...you ARE a jerk. That is not your place to say, especially as she is already at a great weight. Really, it is not your place to comment on her weight anyway, as she is a female and not your toy. Either grow up or let her go find someone who will love her how she is.
u are a jerk what are u gonna say to her hey put down the fork fatty shes tiny thats they normal weight for someone her height ur just gonna make her feel bad about herself don't be an @ss whole
shes at the weight she is supposed to be at. she shouldnt lose any weight, or gain.
well number one, she is average, but if she could use some toning just tell her you want her to work out with you. its a 2 way street and you wont get put in the doghouse
he you do really want her do lose weight.
have meals with her, like cook her food, healthy food.
go on loooong walks with her
join a sports group with her ^^ together activities ^^
me and my boyfriend walk long distances. from my house to his house.
thats just over 3 towns away =] XD
haha tiring =]
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She sounds like a normal weight to me, but why does it matter?
thats actually the normal weight for that height. Do NOT tell her directly, but you can ask her to run with you around a park and share some laughs
Yep, I totally agree....
Your a JERK!!!! I wish I weighed that. If you don't want her I'm sure plenty of other guys will. No wonder women have bulemia and anorexia it's b/c of guys like YOU!
She does not need to lose any weight so back off!
You can't.
For one, any woman is going to have her feelings hurt when her man says she needs to lose weight.
For another, asking her to lose weight when she sounds entirely healthy would just be a jerky thing to do.
If she's not what you're looking for, then break up, and let her find a man who'll be fulfilled and fulfilling. If you really want to stay with her, then you have to accept her for who she is.
just say for your health and for our relationship I think you should lose weight
that is a good height and weight-so you don't have to worry about sounding like a jerk --because you are!!
I wonder what she wants to tell you to lose???