A question for those who have lost weight/ or losing weight?!
Question: Do you feel that since you have lost weight, people seem to treat you differently? I am not just talking about people you know, I'm also talking about strangers too. Complete strangers will come up to me these days and have a chat. May be I seem more cheerful and therefore more approachable, but people seem to say hi, smile a lot more than usual, even strangers. Sorry, I sound like a weirdo, but I swear people treat me differently.
Answers: Do you feel that since you have lost weight, people seem to treat you differently? I am not just talking about people you know, I'm also talking about strangers too. Complete strangers will come up to me these days and have a chat. May be I seem more cheerful and therefore more approachable, but people seem to say hi, smile a lot more than usual, even strangers. Sorry, I sound like a weirdo, but I swear people treat me differently.
Yes, you are corrent, I have lost around 60+ pounds, and since then i HAVE noticed that i do seem more approachable, and more people do treat me like a person and not just like trash.
And overall i think its because since you lost weight you do look better and nicer.
People may see you as an attractive person now?
I don't know.
You should really ask this question to Qasim he will know
Quite the opposite for me im afraid.
I was treated better from women when i was over-weight, however being slimmer attracts more (unwanted) male attention.
I have lost 60 pounds and have not noticed that people treat me any differently. If they did it might because, like you say, my confidence level has increased. :-)
You probably have more self esteem now and put off a freindlier vibe. Where as before you might have seemed more shy and closed off because you were uncomfortable about your weight. I losr 20 pound last year and I was a much happier person and that showed to others. Congrats!
Yes they do, I just thought it was me.
Yes, it's happening to me, too. People who don't usually talk to me will just start talking to me like it's nothing, and the people that I do talk to seem to flirt with me a lot more now. It's because they are noticing you and think that you look good. It's a good thing, I guess.
I think since this society is very..visually driven, many people do tend to be a little more assertive and friendly to someone they find visually appealing. Also, maybe because you have lost weight, you're more comfortable in your own skin, which puts others (like strangers) at ease and makes it easier to approch you.
you may have just opened up more, i know the better we feel about ourselves the better our reflection is on to other people.
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