Why is it people keep lying to me!?!
Question: I hate liars! Its not right to lie to me! I hate everyone that lies to me! Why wont they stop lying to me! I am 5'4'' 160 lbs, I got a lot of fat on me, and people just sit there and tell me a bold faced lie! It doesnt help me! People dont understand! It doesnt make me feel better for someone to sit there and lie to my face! I cant even wear pretty things, I cant even wear a juniors and Im 16 years old! People arent really considering my feelings when they lie to me! Im so tired of this sh*t! And dont hand me "inner beauty" thats a crock full of it! Dont go honey itll be all right, honey your fine, honey your a great weight, honey your just curvy, when its not true! Im tired of all this lying!
Answers: I hate liars! Its not right to lie to me! I hate everyone that lies to me! Why wont they stop lying to me! I am 5'4'' 160 lbs, I got a lot of fat on me, and people just sit there and tell me a bold faced lie! It doesnt help me! People dont understand! It doesnt make me feel better for someone to sit there and lie to my face! I cant even wear pretty things, I cant even wear a juniors and Im 16 years old! People arent really considering my feelings when they lie to me! Im so tired of this sh*t! And dont hand me "inner beauty" thats a crock full of it! Dont go honey itll be all right, honey your fine, honey your a great weight, honey your just curvy, when its not true! Im tired of all this lying!
I'm gonna take a stab at this at the risk of not really "answering your question" since I may not understand your question completely. First off, learn to love yourself just as you are. It makes no difference what your weight or waist is, you have something (probably a lot) to offer to those around you. That is not the "inner beauty" thing that it may sound like but seriously, you need to be able to say, "Ok, this is who I am today and this is what I am today and it's not all bad."
Once you have done that, say to yourself, "Ok, I can accept myself as I am but I think it would be great if I can lose 5 pounds." If you think you need to lose weight, try to do it in small incerements and small goals that are more easily attained. Again, I apologize if this is not really answering your question but if you want to make changes, set small goals and make them reasonable and give yourself time to reach them.
Most importantly, don't let the world's or other's perceptions dictate what mold you should fit in. Keep this an internal thing. Set your goal and don't tell anyone what it is. Meet that goal and don't tell anyone that you did it. DO IT FOR YOURSELF!!!! THAT is the RIGHT reason to make ANY change in who you are. To echo what another answer said, don't ask what others think, it does not matter. Don't change yourself for them, do it for you if you do it at all. Love yourself the way you are first, then make changes and if change doesn't come fast, you still love yourself and that is the most important thing.
Maybe this doesn't answer your question but I hope it might give you a different perspective and sometimes that can make all the difference in the world. I know it has for me in the past. Email me if you want to know how. It's different from your situation but it was a change in perception that someone gave me that helped me a lot!
To me you need to gain more weight and am not lying.
ok then, ur a fat *** cow and u need to get off your ******* *** and lose 50 pounds
Well...lose weight, then, if you don't like the way you look! It's simple - take in less calories and exercise. And don't obsess about food. It's just food. Next question!
OMG! WHAT A FAT PERSON! EWWWWWW!!! FATTNESS! STOP EATING MEAT!!!FATTIE! GO LOOSE WEIGHT! LEAVE! GO TO LA WEIGHT LOSS.
- if that's what you wanna hear. "Everyone is beautiful in God's point of view" <3
ok, uhh let me help..........
YOUR FAT!!!
is that what you wanted to hear? they are probably telling you something that is true, its just something in your mind is telling you that your not. im sure you are a very pretty person. not to be rude or any thing but maybe you should go to a Dr. you sound depressed.
O O O I GOT AN IDEA
GO AN B**** TO SOMEONE ELSE, OR A DEPRESSION HOTLINE, THIS REALLY ISNT A QUESTION, AND EVERYTHING PEOPLE TELL YOU, YOU TELL THEM THE OPPOSITE. SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE STUFF OUT OF LUCK.!!
stop f**cking complaining!
like peopel try to make u feel better. thats soo pathetic that you would even ask this to people! like you just lost points right there
& they can say whatever they want! maybe you are curvy in their eyes. maybe they think your gonnaa b**ch at them if they say " ya your right your a little overweight" like calm dowwwwwwwn
people lprobly lie to you because they think by lying to you by saying good things there making you feel good and by thinking they make you feel good it makes them feel good. thats just what i think....So you should tell them that you hate there fake support
Go to a nutritionist and maybe like...dr. phil
I know how you feel. Im 5"2 and I weigh 160 now. Even when i was at 170 people told me I looked fine and didnt need to lose weight. That was so annoying! I hate when they say im just curvy too because I know my body type (i used to weigh 120) and Im not curvy. People are just stupid. But I learned also that a lot of girls will tell you not to lose weight because they dont want to have competition. Don't listen to what others say.
get a nutritionist and stop treatin people u dont even noo like ****.... wut do u wanna hear? not the inner beauty crap? k i wont do that...not the ur fat crap? k thats mean.... spend less time on the comp and take up a healthy hobby- tennis, soccer, running anything that is active
good luck hun
Okay yes, you are overweight.
If you are exercising and intaking minimal calories maybe you need to find a way to increase your metabolism. The only thing I can suggest is talk to a healthcare professional or your doctor. They know a hell of a lot more about this stuff than we do.
You should try seeing things from others' perspectives. Someones weight and size is an uncomfortable thing to talk about. Besides, you should be glad that they are considerate enough of you to be concerned about offending you. But trust me, I understand what you are saying and how it can work the other way around too. Personally, I have a few overweight friends and they are so beautiful to me. Just because you are overweight doesn't mean you can't be beautiful. It's your health that should matter the most and how being overweight affects the way your body functions.
I'm sure you have heard all of the increased risks of diabetes, heart disease, stroke, etc. so I won't lecture you on that. Just go talk to your doctor and if you have enough determination and maybe some medication to help you out (since this is a pretty rare scenario) everything will turn out how you want it to. If you want it bad enough.
Email me with any questions or concerns
and best of luck
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I know what you're talking about. That crap makes me mad too. I'm losing weight right now and I started off at 194 and I am 5'7 people kept telling me all you need to lose is your stomach or saying you look good to me. That's to them. You need to go with what you are comfortable with. Your medication isn't making it easy for you to lose the weight so you may have to keep trying different diets to see what works for you. I have to do diets like the fat smash diet and I'm working out to taebo amped. That's helping me shape my body. I wrote a blog about people like that on my myspace page. They do make you mad.
Editing answer, because I didn't see your edits.
Try to stop telling others that you need to lose weight. i think that's why you were saying in your edits. You tell people that you need to lose weight, and other people lie. Try to stop it.
Also, don't blame other people so much. They might think that you have a poor self image or poor self esteem. You've heard those stories of people suffering alone or dying because of low self image/esteem. Going anorexic/bullimic, etc, etc. People dont' want that to happen to you. Just keep stressing that you want the TRUTH. I think that if you get them to say yes, then you'll feel better. Argue with them a bit (without bashing yourself too much because that's a sign of poor self image. Exclude stuff like, 'But look at me! How can you say I'm not fat!') then you'll probably feel better.
Also, they might be telling the truth. A LOT of people like chubbier people better. My friend's dad keeps trying to get me to eat more junk food and stuff because he liked me when I was chubbier. So, try not to pay attention or get too annoyed. People are just people. We make mistakes. Not everyone's the same so we can't know the pet peeves of everyone.
Look them in the eye, stay calm, and say, 'Tell me the TRUTH'. If they give you those excuses again, ask for a reason as to why. A REAL reason.