Are obese people ever really attractive?!
Question: Should we be encouraging them to just love their bodies as they are? Or encouraging them to lose weight? Or some combination of these?
Answers: Should we be encouraging them to just love their bodies as they are? Or encouraging them to lose weight? Or some combination of these?
They are absolutely attractive. My wife and I have been married 30 years and both of us are very obese - she is 350 plus and I am 630 plus. We were both obese when we met and were attracted for many reasons not just our size. Our friends are both normal, fat and obese. I think the key is to be positive and confident with who and what we are. We know we are obese and we certainly know why - we eat a lot. That is fine. We made the choice. We don't judge others nor should they judge us. Yes, we always get comments. That is not a problem. The facts of our size are not easy to hide. I simply reply "Why thank you for noticing. Yes, I am very fat and I love it!"
nope.they get dates from people who are turned down by hot people....
They need to lose weight, overweight people not only is very unattractive but it shows the inner person. If someone is overweight it shows how they handle their emotions.
Why should we have to pay taxes to keep people alive that aren't even taking care of them selves... i understand that some people have medical problems which enable it hard for them to lose weight but for all the rest THERE IS NO EXCUSE.
no...encourage them to lose weight so they dont die of heart problems...and in turn they will get laid more often
I really don't think so. I do not judge people if they weren't graced with the best of looks, but weight is something they can control, whether they admit it or not. Yes, it's harder for certain people that others, but to me, why should I have respect for someone who doesn't love them self enough to be healthy and strong? I just don't understand how people live fat and weak. I would go crazy and I'd hate myself.
It's your life... I personally would rather be one that gets looks because I'm attractive and not a whale.
YES! Obese people can be attractive if they just get over themselves and accept the fact that life is not all about looks.
Attractive by definition is the ability to draw a person towards you in a positive way. As they become closer and closer to you, they feel more in touch with you, there by creating a connection, i.e. attraction.
Have you ever been with a girl who looks drop dead gorgeous but can't keep a conversation or they they spend SOOO much time on their looks that they neglect on their social skills?
Simply put. Looks helps but it's not all you need. Fat, ugly, or whatever you can think of, they can be attractive as long as they know how to act and behave in situation.