I feel overweight.?!


Question: I am 14, weigh 170, and am 5foot6. I am a vegetarian except for chicken, eat pretty healthily, and excersice semi-regularly. I'm in spirit squad and we have conditioning days, jog 5 minutes every day, and do 50 crunches everyday. we also do stuff during classtime that is strenuous. i feel fat. my legs and arms are "jiggly" and my stomach is huge. i can't wear alot of cute clothes i like and all my friends are super skinny. i hate how i look. i've never had a boyfriend, and no guy that i know of has ever "liked" me. i'm starting to think it's my looks. i'm really jealous of all my friends because they're all skinny and have had boyfriends. help?

Answers: I am 14, weigh 170, and am 5foot6. I am a vegetarian except for chicken, eat pretty healthily, and excersice semi-regularly. I'm in spirit squad and we have conditioning days, jog 5 minutes every day, and do 50 crunches everyday. we also do stuff during classtime that is strenuous. i feel fat. my legs and arms are "jiggly" and my stomach is huge. i can't wear alot of cute clothes i like and all my friends are super skinny. i hate how i look. i've never had a boyfriend, and no guy that i know of has ever "liked" me. i'm starting to think it's my looks. i'm really jealous of all my friends because they're all skinny and have had boyfriends. help?
I used to be just like that. Now I am 21, 5'6" and I weigh about 150. I am so much more accepting of my body now and I know you will be too given enough time. Although I know it is hard to be your age and be in school and feel like you are overweight. No matter what size you are, if you pick the right clothes, that fit your body they will make you body look good. Do Not wear teeny tiny clothes like the skinny girls do. Wear clothes that make you feel good. Trust me, even the guys know that those girls are just trying to show off and they still talk about them behind their backs saying how slutty they are. And I know it doesn't seem like it but you WILL find a guy. I found my guy at 19 and I am glad I waited. Any relationship you have at your age wouldn't be worth it anyway. They will just make you feel worse about yourself. Wait until you find a guy that makes you feel prettier than any other girl. And until that comes, learn to accept your body and focus on the posotives and what you like about yourself. I'm sorry if I'm scaring you I just used to be just like you. Just trust me that it will all get better.
well at least ur not 190 pounds and 13 years old Report It

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    • Have you herd about the good and bad bacteria and how this way can help you lose weight. Look it up
    i belive so....
    its nothing to be ashamed about
    but you can't be vegeterian if u eat chicken


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