Does anyone else find it rude?!
Question: when people are really unsupportive of you when you say you want to get more toned up, just because you're thinner than them?
Why don't they just tell you to go for it and do it as well instead of get catty and complain about how you're thinner than them so don't have the right to say anything?
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Answers: when people are really unsupportive of you when you say you want to get more toned up, just because you're thinner than them?
Why don't they just tell you to go for it and do it as well instead of get catty and complain about how you're thinner than them so don't have the right to say anything?
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Luckily you are only responsible for your actions and your attitudes. You cannot make anyone else be what they should be.
Yes, it is rude and uncaring. People tend to be like that all through life and in all types of situations. If you worry about your budget, there will always be someone who has more bills or makes less that wonders why you are worried. Because you are responsible and want to be sure you pay your bills on time - yept that could be it.
So, take a deep breathe and go on. Just be sure you remember this when you are on the other side of the fence and show compassion to others. It sounds like compassion is part of you nature. Good gal.
Jealousy's a terrible thing. Don't mention it to the ones that whine. Just do it.
go for it
most people don't let that affect them and worry about it as much as you.....definately not rude
because people are self centered. i hate that
People wont change... I recommend yous tp expecting them to support you and look within yourelf for support
Go for IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
I rather have them call me a string bean than a tub.
i think youre just looking for attention
and they probably get catty because you know youre skinny and youre flaunting it..looking for people to be like omg you dont need to do that youre so skinny, skinnier than me blah blah.. yep. exactly it
so no, i dont find it rude
i find you ruuuudeeee
I think your just trying to brag about how thin you are, and I think that you tell pple you want to tone up to get attention. You dont need to tell people just do it. plus maybe they are worried about you because you may be going anoerexic. excercising is good, but honestly you need to eat too. no man likes a girl he can barely see or feel, guys like healthy girls
as long as you are doing it a healthy way that's good for your body of course you should be supported
you should be discouraged when you start eating an unhealthy amount
not when you are excersising more, eating healthier
to you it sounds like "i need to tone up" but to them so it kinda sounds like " i thinner than u and i need to tone up, ur fatter than me and u need to..."
u may not mean it that way but it can seem like it
If you are thinner than someone else they can get really jealous so just do it don't mention it to them because they really don't want to know That sux aye? but its true. Its like telling a fish that its windy..
Weight is touchy. Sometimes skinny people obsess about their weight and everyone who have a couple of pounds to shed are reminded of their personal baggage. Find some common ground or tell them how amazing you feel with you start adding more weights to your regimen. Don't go there it's like taking about how great your new car is when someone else just got it a wreck.
go for it
I've never seen this.
I have seen, however, skinny people complain about being "fat", and receive comments on how they should not lose weight- which, they shouldn't.
TONING is a very different thing, however. Toning doesn't involve dropping numerical pounds- just shaping the body and either adding or defining muscle.
Though, people often confuse "losing weight" when they really need to simply "tone".
well, I have had the same thing happen, and I guess I have to ask myself the question " is it polite to tell a person fatter than me that I want to lose/tone.."
People don't want to feel fat, so don't remind them they are fat...
Just a thought. Keep up working out, and don't tell people, most don't care anyway, or will be even MORE jealous when you start looking even better than you do now, which makes them feel worse...
ahhh they are just jealous or stupid.
see, youre prolly the type who actually wants to take care of yourself and look good, and they are prolly the type to eat mcdonalds everyday and complain about being fat.
people who are too lazy to help themselves just hate to see someone else doing it.
im a personal trainer, and i think its awesome you want to tone up.
dont listen to those people. they have a snakey poisonous attitude, and you shouldnt let them poison yours. if they want to be rude and mean to you for doing something good for themselves, let them just wallow in their own pool of negativity.
when they are 60 theyll be in a wheelchair cuz they are too stiff and fat to move, but youll be playing in the yard with ur grandkids.
email me if you want some exercise tips. ;)
It's envy and a sign you may need more supportive friends instead of anchors trying to hold you down.
jus ignore them and prove them wrong
ENVY...i think they were just envious of your slim trim figure...there are lazy people who does not want to hear anything from their feared-of issues....or these people just want to be left alone...
My favorite is " Your already thin you don't need to workout". Ya ok and im just naturally like that right???
Yes it is rude and annoying.
A) They might be jealous.
B) They might think that you are saying it to them as an insult to them. Because if you have to get toned then you might be getting at them getting toned and skinnier.
C) They think you are perfect the way you are and don't seem any room for improvement.
D) They think that you are putting yourself down and if they agree with you then they think you might defensive and get all "oh so you think I AM fat and need to get toned" on them.
The possibilities are endless. Sorry people make you feel bad about it! Just go for it if thats what you really want.
I am supportive of anyone who wishes to improve themselves
Because the heavier people think you are taunting them....
" I'm thinner than you, and I'm going to be even thinner..."
If you need to get toned up, do it...... other people really aren't that interested, and have their own problems...
Not trying to be rude, just stating facts,....
One thing you must remember about human nature. Misery loves company. It is very difficult for someone who is not comfortable with how they look to offer support and a ray of hope to someone ACTUALLY trying to better themselves.
Don't let it get to you because they will ALWAYS exist. Instead, remember these words:
YOU NEVER FAIL UNTIL YOU QUIT! NEVER STOP, NEVER GIVE UP, AND NEVER GIVE IN.
That is your recipe for succeeding in you fitness goals.
because they are jealous that they didnt think of it first or can't do it themselves.
People never give credit where credit is due