My sister is fat, should I tell her?!
Question: help?
Answers: help?
Yes. In the nicest way possible;
Yeah, but maybe you could be more tactful than "you are fat"... maybe you could discuss that you are concerned for her health-wise and you would like to work out with her so she's not alone".
i do it all the time loolo
Why? Leave her alone..if she's overweight, I'm sure she knows it...why make her feel even worse if she gets picked on about it..?
Is she blind?
Well put it this way, would you want someone telling you , your fat??? You need to think about her feelings first.
say the honest truth
but you could help her out by taking her to the gym
walk around the block with her or
do exercise with her
=D
no. she is your family. if she is that fat, she will already know. she needs your support. offer to go on walks with her, or ask her to go biking with you. tell her you really enjoy spendin that time with her.
if you want to hurt her feelings and throw her into depression, then by all means, tell her she is fat!!!
im sure she already knows...are you trying to make her feel bad?
yes u should because she might think about it and will try to lose weight. we think it might hurt their feelings, so we dont tell them. that is why they stay that way because they think they're fine
yes but make sure you dont be rude about it
Simply invite her to take walks with you or do something else active...she'll get the hint, but she can't criticize since it's something you're already doing yourself.
Thats kind of harsh. I know from being bigger myself how hard it is to be bigger. she probably gets enough s-it from her peers. You are family. you need to be there for her. how would you feel if it was the other way around and she said hey sis just to let you know your fat, sorry.
but you can start helping her eat healthier and exercising more. Like asking her if she wants to go for a bike ride, play some volleyball or basketball.
Goodluck.
...only if you want to get punched in the head...
absolutely not, work on your own issues and attitude...
No! Why should you.
would you like it if someone told you that.
Think before you act.
Good luck!
im sure she notices. don't tell her. and for all i know you could be weird and think 120 is fat so inless she is 200 pounds don't say anything. but if your really worried and think that she is in danger because of her health then tell her. nicely. and use the right words.
don't tell her so blatantly, but yeah, just suggest going to the gym together or something like that.
who cares about her feelings? tell her she's fat or else she's gonna become obese and its going to be all you fault that she's so overweight.... and seriously is she blind or what
I am sure she is well aware of this fact and probably feels like crap about it. and therefore the last thing you should do is be captain obvious. Like scrubbing salt into an already festered wound.
do you see her as any less of a person because she is fat?
Why is having a fat sister a negative thing for you?
well youre the one who knows her best from most of us here. so its really up to you. but shes your sister, and her feelings are top priority if youre telling her something like that. maybe take her running or convince her to do some activities! that might help out, get her to gradually lose weight and compliment her throughout. then she might feel more happy.
If your sister is large, then I will tell you something right now, she knows! Its not like she is blind, or doesn't know what size she wears, she knows. Gosh, I am tired of small people thinking that bigger people are completly unaware of their size. We all have mirrors! Don't tell your sister she is fat! How rude can one person be! If you think that she wants help to learn how to eat right, and go for walks, then help her, don't put her down, that will make her feel worse about herself, which in turn can lead to stress and over eating which will cause her to become larger.
I tell my sister she's fat all the time.
No! Do not come out and tell her...
If you really want to help her.. then i suggest you do it with her.. Say something like " I'm trying to loose a couple pounds.. Want to help me out.. we can do it together "
And if you do it with her it also creates motivation.. people say if you have partner it usually keeps you more commited !
try that out and see how it works..
Best of Luck ? XoX
i am sure that she knows that she is overweight or 'fat'. no one wants to be told that they are fat and you could be doing more harm then good. it depends what state your sisters self esteem is in.
if she is younger i advise against it, she wont know how to react, you would probably really hurt her feelings. maybe it would be best if you discussed this with your parents. talk to them about getting your sister to a dietician.
if she is older, you might live to regret it. again go to your parents about this. does she have a healthy lifestyle, if she doesnt give hints like "you know thats not good for you, i wont touch it". what the guy said above is also a good thing to try
She knows already!
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