Why are people this way?!
Question: Why are people actually mad at fat people?? I mean, yes, it may very well be their own fault that they are big but what makes people think they have the right to judge them and talk harshly to them? Does this make skinny people feel better about themselves? I was just reading a question about someone's obese friend and one answer was "tell them to get off their fat ***"....thats just plain rude!!! You have no idea what that person is going through......
Answers: Why are people actually mad at fat people?? I mean, yes, it may very well be their own fault that they are big but what makes people think they have the right to judge them and talk harshly to them? Does this make skinny people feel better about themselves? I was just reading a question about someone's obese friend and one answer was "tell them to get off their fat ***"....thats just plain rude!!! You have no idea what that person is going through......
this kind of comment is all too typical these days.sorry you had to see that.i don't like seein' it either. i can be as abrasive as anyone else,but why? most people have a quick mouth and don't think before they speak.surely,nobody here has the right to judge another. i've been on both ends of the weight thing and sometimes folks are just comfortable where they're at and that ought to be enough. hope i've helped you past it.
I totally aggree with you
Seriously. That certainly isn't positive reinforcement to make a person want to do better. Some people are larger by nature. And my goodness some overweight people were conditioned that way their entire lives. It is a difficult thing to change.
But I do not think it is right to be rude. It probably does make others feel better about themselves to put big people down, but that just shows how ugly they are on the inside.
I couldnt agree more..
Im glad you brought it up..
People need to stop being so f**** rude and accept everyone as they are...and they cant deal with it then thats there problem right?
I get people tell me to eat more and call me names coz im thin...
No one is perfect, and the only person you should make happy is yourself..
if your happy with who u r than dont bother with ppl these days
could be that their biggest fear is that they to will gain too much weight and seeing a big person or even talking about them makes them think about their own fears and so they lash out rather than having compasion for the other person
i dont think that its that they hate fat people more of the probelm to me is to make them feel bad about themselfs so they lose wieght. to me i happen to like thicker guys. and alot of my friends that are girls are on the thicker side. i am one of the not to skinny but not to thick girls. but i think that people should be happy with thiere size as long as it is not a hazard to thier health.. close looks better on thicker people..
yea i c it happening all around these times and sometimes wonder wat its all about and its so freqent.
i dnt kno howe to prevent it. and theres no solution