My girlfriend has developed a gut recently and I wanna nicely tell her tog et ri!
Question: I love my girlfriend very much and this year she has gained about 25 lbs and developed a huge gut. People often ask if she is pregnant. How can I ask nicely ask her to lose weight?
Answers: I love my girlfriend very much and this year she has gained about 25 lbs and developed a huge gut. People often ask if she is pregnant. How can I ask nicely ask her to lose weight?
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Well, are you yourself fit? Ill bet you can stand to lose some fat yourself. Go jogging with her for 1 to 2 miles a day.
hey girlfriend, lets see who gets the abs showing first.
dont tell her
Well, that depends on how she feels about it. Is she happy with herself? Does she bring it up as an issue? If she is happy with herself there is nothing you can do. You didn't get her to sign a contract saying she couldn't put on weight, did you?
If she is complaining, then there is something you can do. Give her advice.
Personally if I am with someone who puts on weight I only worry if it is making them feel like crap.
okay, so if i was your girlfriend, i think i would want to know how you felt about me. although, i would hope my boyfriend would like me no matter what size i was (which, i'm sure you do love your girlfriend very much)...
anyway, i would love it if my boyfriend wanted to go on a diet with me, and started exercising with me
so...instead of telling her that she has a "gut", tell her that you yourself would like to lose weight, and ask if she would like to join you. if she says no, she likes herself the way she is...drop it, and love her for her.
hopefully that made sense
make it fun... tell her you want to go for a walk... go walk to a park and play tennis, or roller skate. Maybe even go to the gym together...
Eventhough you may not be over weight.
try and suggest for you too to workout together.
maybe getting a plan at the gym together.
Tell her that you want to buy a new swimsuit for her, and that you want to help her pick it out. This will get her in front of a mirror and checking herself out, and I'm guessing she will hint to you that she needs to lose some weight. Use this opportunity to make up a workout plan that the two of you can do together, either at the gym or at home. It's a lot easier to stick to a workout if you have someone there who helps to motivate you.
It sucks that this is such a delicate subject but depending on how long you've been together and how close you are it'l be really hard to say it nicely.
I think the best way is to really get into it yourself and encorage her to join you. Start eating healthier and when you're out together go fro the healthy option.
Dude.
If you don't like her the way she is, you don't deserve her.