Is it ok for my dad to make comments to me about my weight and the fact that I e!


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Is it ok for my dad to make comments to me about my weight and the fact that I eat more than I used to?

He makes comments like "Are you hungrey? " "It kinda sticks with you doesn't it? In a sarcastic and rude way. I do not say anything when he says his comments. He looked at one of my photos from back in 1997 and said: "What happened to you Annetta? "You look alot different now than you did back then." I said that I grew up and changed in looks and my figure, keep in mind I was still going through puberty at the time so no wonder I was different in features then compared to now. He said: "You didn't grow up, you grew out." I feel he is making me feel uncomfortable to see how far he can push me to say something, but then again, I can take it from someone I do not know, but when it is your dad making the comments, it makes you feel really bad. I am a heavy person, I have gotten heavier over the years, and have obesity and other health problems in my biological family. I do not have the best diet in the world, but I am not that bad really, I eat fruits and vegetables and what is cooked.


Answers:

what a jerk. you know what just ignore him you can't change who he is. Just let him be himself and let the comments go. That is an awful thing to have to go through. Must make your self confidence so low. But for some reason he feels that he needs to put you down. Maybe his father or mother did the same to him.




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