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Questions..?

i`m only 14, but i feel like a complete idiot.
alls i worry about is trying to get skinny and putting makeup on too look pretty.
my sister is pretty much a whore and she even admits it. she wears little mini skirts and tank tops, she drinks and plays around with guys.
its kinda embarrassing and hurtful towards me cause i don`t feel pretty comparing myself to her
like all of my guy friends are like "wheres your sister, shes so hot" and they don`t even say i`m hot.
i weigh 120 and they call me fat cause shee doesn`t eat and she weighs 100.
i hate it.
i`m trying to lose weight but i don`t know what to do?
should i just stay on the diet i`m on? i eat yogurt & drink milk or water. and eat fruits and salad! is that a good diet?
any other ideas for a 14 yr old to lose weight?
help please (:


Answers:

First of all, your're not an idiot. My wife and I have rased four children (two girls and two boys) and I know what you're going through. Just like we told our children, live your life the way you want, but don't try to copy after other people or compare yourself to others, when you do, you'll just end up feeling bad about yourself. Be your own person, I know its hard being a teen, but you have your whole life ahead of you.
Don't worry what othere people think of you, as long as you love yourself, that's what matters. Don't worry about being skinny, just eat right, exercise, and look good for yourself, not for someone else.
There is one thing you don't want to do is drink or take drugs. That is never the answer, neither one of our kids ever took drugs or ran around with bad company, it will only get you into bad trouble.
As for your sister, that's her life, not yours. I think you are a very bright person. Don't throw your life away, I have seen many kids try to copy after other people, especially sisters and brothers, be your own person. When you put on make-up, put it on because you want to look pretty, dress the way you want, or, the way your parents want you to, but be yourself!




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