Why does my weight now control me?!


Question: Why does my weight now control me!?
For the longest time i have looked in the mirror and honestly have seen a "thin" beautiful woman!. I have always been on the heavier side but it never slowed me down, while in jr!. high and high school i involved myself in every sport i could, I was a cheerleader, played basketball, ran track, played tennis, and dance team!. Every summer i would go to the pool and swim for hours!. I never felt fat and never saw a fat person in the mirror!. Although i was a size 18/20!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Recently i looked in the mirror and just broke down in tears, for the first time in my life i see a fat girl, a girl who isnt very pretty!. How can i get back to seeing myself as a beautiful girl again!? insead of a fat ugly thing!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Chuck T is just a very cruel person!. I am sure you are a very beautiful girl!. Try to focus on getting back into an aerobic life style with the same spark you had back in school!. Stay upbeat and positive!. You're the best!Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you've always felt great about yourself and just recently started having issues with your looks, it might be something else entirely in your life that is bothering you!. Think of any big changes that have happened recently that might have affected your self esteem or self worth!. If there is something in your life you are not happy with, you may start obsessing over your weightand looks as some form of control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your probabley going threw a stage where you dont think your pretty anymore because there are girls alot skinnyer n maby more prettyer around you !.!.!. n you probably feel incecure about yourself !.!.!. If i was you Id keep doing what your doing and try to be more postive about your self!.!.!. go out n find a guy that doesnt make you feel so "ugly" i bet your a beautiful girl just dont let yourself down and dont give up!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wow! I cannot believe what a jerk that guy is!
Anywho, I think it's all about confidence!. I've had the same problem!.!.!.!.why don't you try eating healthier and exercising, or at least walking!. When you start sheding pounds you'll feel great, even if it's 1 pound!. You'll know you're doing something good for yourself and get motivated and feel beautiful again!.
Oh! and don't listen to jerks!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are probably a fat ugly bastard!. I think I would break down in tears too!. Look up "I'm Luggin it" on Google and you'll see yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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