Girls are DYING to get my body..and I dont want it!!?!


Question: Girls are DYING to get my body!.!.and I dont want it!!!?
All these girls out there are dying trying to get the body I have!.!.they go under plastic surgery,anorexia,bulimia,diets,so many things that eventually lead to death!.!.and I feel very guilty about it!. When I hear about a girl who died of anorexia, I want to cry, because I feel totally responsible!! I don't want to sound totally cocky or anything, but I so often get told I have the perfect apperance, when I was little, it was my hair that girls envied, and they spent hours and hundreds to get hair that was just natural for me!. Now that I'm older!.!.it's now my figure!. I am naturally thin all over, except my stomach where all my fat is, ( not that much either!! I'm 14 and weigh 100 lbs and BMI's say that it's healthy for me BTW since I'm only 5'1" ) and when I complain about the fat on my belly, I hear the same thing every time "Girls are DYING to get your body, and your not happy with the body they want that desperate they're willing to actually die for!?" and yes, I'm not happy with it!!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Well, you don't have to feel guilty!. After all, those girls chose to do that to their body!. It's their fault for choosing something they knew could hurt them!.

As for your body, you're right, you are extremely fit! I don't know why you're unsatisfied with it!. Be confident in your body and don't feel guilty! And I really doubt you actually have belly fat!.

You should be careful about how you complain to your friends!. A friend and I are a little overweight compared to some of our more fit friends, and when they started complaining about their jean sizes and fat, we felt REALLY fat next to them and it made us feel horrible!. In fact, it drove us to exercise more, but it still hurts when our friends mention it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

umm ok!? its not your fault for the way your built and i doubt that your responsible for girls starving themselves!. your not even super skinny!. your perfect for your height!. don't worry about being the cause of every other girls' problemsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Eat alot of junk food and put on weight!.!.!. that way you wont feel guilty!.!.!. btw this is a really stupid question!.!.!. Not everything is about you ya know!.!.!. its about the perfect catwalk model trend that people try to follow!.!.!. it has nothing to do with you!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

maybe you should be a super model since your so perfectWww@Answer-Health@Com

are you drunk!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have the same problem!. I'm 18, and I weigh, on average 115!. I'm skinny, except for a little pouchy belly (D:)!. I eat soooo much food, I eat double what my 6'4 twin brother (he's exactly 1 foot taller than me) eats!. Girls like us just happen to have fast metabolism!. We're not all made to look exactly alike, otherwise the world would be pretty boring!. All we can do is enjoy what we have!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't feel guilty about it at all! You dont have anything to do with the psychological problems that people have, okay!?

And if you think you have fat on your belly, then don't be afraid to work on it! Start working out and do some weight training to build up muscle!. Be proud of who you are!

Girls are not dying to get your body!. They are dying to fit into an unrealistic world!. They are unsatisfied with their self-image and are looking for ways to make themselves better, when often they were perfect the way the were! Most of the people with eating disorders have actual psychological problems!. They do not know what their "perfect body" is, and so they starve themselves to death because they convince themselves that they are never good enough!.

It's not your fault!. And maybe it isn't theirs, either!. God made you the way you are for a reason!. Don't go thinking it isn't good enough, or that it is unfair to others!. You don't have to take responsibility for what others think and do!.


And besides, the perfect body isn't a thin one; it's a body that is healthy, fit, and naturally achieved!. Beauty is self-confidence!. That's all it ever really is!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

No one is ever happy with their own body!. Even beautiful celebrities with bodies that everyone envies think they need work!. Thus, they hire expensive personal trainers and airbrush artists to fix their photos!. The problem is NO ONE looks like the models in magazines, even the models! Those photos are fiddled with and retouched till those people look inhumanly, impossibly perfect!.

Don't stress about what you think is a little "fat" on your stomach!. Women have a little pouch of fat over their stomachs naturally to protect their "girl" organs!. When we look at ourselves, we tend to see our faults rather than our good points!. You are young and cute now!.!.!.enjoy this time of your life and don't worry about what you think are flaws!. They are things that make you uniquely YOU!.

Remember, your body is temporary!.!.!.you will only be young once!. Youth is a short time!. Isn't it better work on things that last like your education, your friends, your family, your relationship with God!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's not your fault so dont worry so much over it!.
Its not your fault girls decide to be idiots and do the unhealthy 'easy' way to get skinny!.

Some people it takes lots of work, so instead of complaining about, they need to get off their butts and change what they dont like about themselves!. They may not get the exact results but by the time they switch to a better lifestyle they will feel so much better about themselves!.

Same goes for you, if you dont like something about yourself (something minor, like your belly fat) Then try and change it by getting more exercise and better eating habits!.BUT PLEASE! Dont worry so much about other people like you are!. It will age you!.

All that stress and you will get pimples and and wrinkles and!.!.

Just, be happy with yourself, and all that!. You sound like a lucky girl to be blessed with that stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well that does sound like it sucks, and I can understand your guilt!. But there's nothing you can do about it, and unfortunately I know quite a few girls who are hated because the way they look!. But as long as you are rude or cocky to the girls that are jealous of you, then there is no reason to feel guilty!. I know, as a guy, that I would give up a whole lot to be really good looking, and all I can say is just know that you have been blessed, and make sure you take good care of it too because a body like that shouldn't be wasted, and should look be taken care of!. I hope I have helped!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you dont want to sound totally cocky but you DO you sound like you have delusions about your body like it's the ideal!.!.!.and though I'm 32 weeks pregnant, I was told this before I was pregnant too!.!.!.and you know what!? In my mind I was too skinny and didnt want 2b that way!.!.!.
EDIT: I notice youre only 14!.!.!.makes sense!.!.!.anyways the fat on your stomach is probably just baby fat and will go away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hey i know exactly what u mean im 15 and everyone tells me i have a great body but!.!. im completly flat its sucks casue my friends are all like 0o0o ur so skinny how r u so skinny idk i just am ! and then i feel sucky cause they all r bigger than me huh!.!.!.!.!. but yeah ur weight and everything sounds fine im about 5'4 107 i think i may be underweight but u sounds like ur body is healthy!. dont worry about any fat round ur stomch either u can do some crunches or it could be the way or body is growing right now u'll prob get taller and it will go any!.!.!. as for the girls that r dying pretty much for our bodies their not really!.!.!.!. their dying to have their bones pertrituding really sad!. if u feel like this ffects you maybe you can some how help these girls!. not sure how but thinking about it is a start
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