My Girlfriend has gotten so fat. It disgusts me. How do i make her lose weight?!


Question: My Girlfriend has gotten so fat!. It disgusts me!. How do i make her lose weight!?
When we have sex I make her leaver her shirt on!. I just cant deal with it!. She is so pretty in the face!. her body used to be smoking hot but after 2 kids she looks like agustus gloop!. I dont know how to tell her without hurting her, She is always worried about her hair and makeup!. Im always thinking why dont you lose that fat gut and buttWww@Answer-Health@Com


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Points to you for NOT hurting her by blabbing how you feel to her or degrading her or embarrassing her!!! Many guys don't spare the woman's feelings!. So thank you for being RESPECTFUL to her in this way---THAT is #1 of what loving someone is all about!. Respect before all things!.
Now-I don't know how fit you are but you could take over making the meals ((((healthy and tasty))))!.
I would recommend lite items over fat free or zero calories!. Work up to omitting, extra sugar, salt or fats, & creams!.
Seriously, it would give her more time for you, the kids, the house and you will benefit by getting her and all of you fed in a healthier manner!.
Please don't think """"I have a Job!!"""" I don't have time----YOU CAN DO amazing meals if you take a little interest and research a little and KNOW, if you don't cook now the worse you can do by doing this is burn dinner until you get it right---keep the box of baking soda handy!!!---
I guarantee this will do it for her and you forever!.
And, don't become the food police in the house or out to eat-just supply the healthy meals you can!. Period!.
Have a Great Wife---I mean Life! LOLWww@Answer-Health@Com

First off, you're a jerk!. did you ever think it makes her feel like crap if you talk about her on the internet and make her leave her shirt on just cuz she had kids!?

Second off, if you're actually CONCERNED for her health, and she really wants to lose weight (she probably would like to lose weight becuase she tries to look nice all the time) then maybe you should, idk, try deiting and working out WITH her instead of trying to force her to!?

or leave her!. whatever!. it'll probably hurt her at first, but if you're not even willing to diet and work out with her or love her for who she is, then she diserves better anyways!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First and foremost, realize that beauty is on the inside!. However, we all know that carrying excess weight is bad for our health!. I would take that approach, on yourself first, and see if you can get her to come along with you!. Start by buying healthy food and changing your diet, then maybe add in some walking!. You could offer to make some healthy dinners for the two of you to share!. Ask her if she'd like to join you for a mile walk!. I can tell you though, straight up, if you mention her weight to her, or bring up your opinion about her weight, you will get NOWHERE! It's such a tough issue for woman, and if you bring it up, you are likely to really hurt her mentally and emotionally!. If you aren't having any luck with the "improve yourself first" method, then perhaps see if you can talk to your family doctor about your concerns!. Sometimes hearing it from someone other than your significant other is the best way to hear difficult news!. Good luck, and please don't forget to love your girlfriend for who she is, and not how she looks, and put health before looks! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you should tell her!. So she knows what a huge jerk you are!. Are you the one who got her pregnant in the first place!? If so, you have no right to complain how she looks!. I bet you're no peach either!. You probably got a beer belly hanging, big butt yourself, and craters all over your face!.
You try carry babies inside you!. Not just once, but twice!. I did it 3 times!. Believe me, losing the weight isn't easy!. One day her body probably will be smoking hot again!. That's more than she can say about yours!. Right!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

ur a discusting jerk and all u want is sex!.
ur sadd get a life
i bet ur fatter than her
dumass
dont u know its not the looks that matter
looks like u dont know how a womans body works u pig
after a woman has 2 kids its hard to loose the baby waght duhh now before u come posting dumass questions think about wat u wantt
i bet ur hurting ur relationship by posting ****Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is so unfair to your girlfriend!. Who got her pregnant in the first place!? Set a good example and watch what you eat, and ask her if her and the kids want to take long walks for starters!. Don't bring in junk food, or go to fast food places!. She will do it when she is ready!. It's very hard for her emotionally inside that she doesn't share with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You can't MAKE her do anything!. She has had 2 children, cut her a little slack! But if you truely want her to loose weight for her HEALTH not just for your need to have eye candy, tell her that you were thinking about going to the gym, and ask her if she would like to go with you!. BE SENSITIVE, though!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

oh ****!. this is definitely not good!. if they're your two kids then i think your a bit shallow but what can i do about people's preferences!. just motivate her to excercise!. go to the gym together or take jogs in the morning together!. help her through it for a while!. if you tried that already, tell her your feelings about her weight but ALOT more suttle than the way you expressed them online!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't believe you can make her!. I'm sure you could come up with ideas to gently encourage her!. I work out w/my husband, we make it fun!. And we grocery shop together, only buying foods around the walls, not the processed in the middle!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

She had two kids give her a break!. You try have kids and you see what is like!. If you want her to lose weight try taking a walk with her or something like that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You try having two kids and being the primary caretaker; I'm sure there's no chance in hell you'd end up with a beer belly and an ever-present stench!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Talk to her about it; tell her that you're worried about her health!.

You sound like a jerk, by the way!.!.!.She had two kids, guy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

And whose are the kids!.!.!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

tell her that ur worried n that she needs to do something bout itWww@Answer-Health@Com

talk to her about it!.
but you sound rude!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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