Wife as an exercise partner?!
Question: Wife as an exercise partner!?
Now that my wife is back with me -- and she says she wants to get in shape because she's running for elective office -- she wants to tag along with me to the running track!.
I'm not claiming to be Carl Lewis, but compared to my wife I am!
My wife hadn't been interested in exercising much!. She put on about 40 pounds in the past year or so, as there are several drive thrus from our home to her workplace 20 minutes away -- and my wife thinks "drive thru" is a command, not a suggestion!.
I mostly had been running with the 20-year-old au pair, Krystka, who later became my girlfriend when my wife and I had separated!. Krystka could easily handle a two-mile run, and I liked tailing her and watching that butt in tight short shorts -- it made the run that much easier!.
Now Krystka's deported and I'm with ol' ironsides, whose pace is about the same as the speed of the line for Splash Mountain at Disney World on New Year's Day!.
How can I exercise with this ball and chain around my ankle!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm not claiming to be Carl Lewis, but compared to my wife I am!
My wife hadn't been interested in exercising much!. She put on about 40 pounds in the past year or so, as there are several drive thrus from our home to her workplace 20 minutes away -- and my wife thinks "drive thru" is a command, not a suggestion!.
I mostly had been running with the 20-year-old au pair, Krystka, who later became my girlfriend when my wife and I had separated!. Krystka could easily handle a two-mile run, and I liked tailing her and watching that butt in tight short shorts -- it made the run that much easier!.
Now Krystka's deported and I'm with ol' ironsides, whose pace is about the same as the speed of the line for Splash Mountain at Disney World on New Year's Day!.
How can I exercise with this ball and chain around my ankle!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
If she wants to come along, fine!. You just go at your pace and let her develop her own pace!. She will be a lot slower at first, naturally, because she isn't in condition!. Caution her to start out slow so she doesn't overdo at first!. I think, whatever her reason for wanting to get in shape, that's a positive sign and a worthy goal!. Once she gets started, she may find she likes the results and will want to keep a healthier lifestyle!. Try to encourage her and don't put her down!. She's likely to feel a little self conscious at first so try to bolster her confidence!. You will feel better that you helped another person, and it doesn't have to slow you down!. I know I'm a romantic and a bit of an eternal optimist, but I hope someday it will be your wife who you like following behind so you can watch her sexy butt!. Still rooting for Claire, but am still a little skeptical as to whether I should be or not!. Oh, come on, Claire!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Reality Reality Reality!.!.!.giving things a 6 mos!. trial run, its important to not drag old chapters into this one!.!.!.the past is the past or the present and future never comes through!.!.!.If she is making an honest effort!.!.!.look at it like this!.!.!.she may just get into the shape she wishes to be by your patience with her!.!.!.if you can't work with that!.!.!.tell her honestly she needs to do this on her own for a time and when she builds up her stamina, you two can excercise together!. Just a thought!.!.!.You know I wish you well!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just "suffer" for a while and if she loses any weight then your problem will be gone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't hold back now, Claire expresses an interest in getting back into shape and to spend some time with you doing this, and all you can do it b*tch about it!.
Maybe this trial reconciliation is not working, you seem to be holding onto the pains from the past!. I think you need to let go of the images of Krystka or your marriage really won't have a chance!. Try and think of the woman Claire was when you fell in love with her, rather than the person she had become, I honestly believe some people can change for the better!. Don't forget you are not the same person and not so innocent either!. At least it seems as though Claire is trying, even if you think she has ulterior motives!.
Let her come jogging with you, think of the positive result this will have and Claire could start wearing those tight short too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe this trial reconciliation is not working, you seem to be holding onto the pains from the past!. I think you need to let go of the images of Krystka or your marriage really won't have a chance!. Try and think of the woman Claire was when you fell in love with her, rather than the person she had become, I honestly believe some people can change for the better!. Don't forget you are not the same person and not so innocent either!. At least it seems as though Claire is trying, even if you think she has ulterior motives!.
Let her come jogging with you, think of the positive result this will have and Claire could start wearing those tight short too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com