My bestfriend thinks she is fat ! (pictures)?!
Question: My bestfriend thinks she is fat ! (pictures)!?
she is 5'4, about 120 pounds, today at school someone said she was fat!. I think she is perfect! I feel really bad cause she was really upset and didnt eat much for the rest of the day
what do you think!?
do you think she is beautiful!?
thanks guys! ?
ps, the bottom one is us two together! :D
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what do you think!?
do you think she is beautiful!?
thanks guys! ?
ps, the bottom one is us two together! :D
http://fashion-features!.piczo!.com/!?cr=4Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
She is not even slightly fat!.!.!.she is perfect -sized (I wish I were that size! I'm a healthy weight and some people have said I'm too thin, but I'm not as thin as she is!), thin, slender, any other word you could use that is the absolute opposite of fat!. A lot of girls would love to have a figure like hers!. I don't know who told her she was fat, but that person needs his/her eyes checked and his/her mouth closed (unless they have something nice AND TRUE to say)!.
I hope she won't take that comment seriously at all because the person who said it obviously doesn't know the definition of "fat!."
People who make insulting remarks like this ALWAYS do it for selfish reasons!.
A guy might insult a girl - even though it's not true - just to show off to his (guy) friends!. She needs to know that!. A lot of obnoxious comments from guys about a girl's looks, like when she walks by and a bunch of guys look at her and then make comments, are REALLY NOT WHAT THE GUY ACTUALLY THINKS OF HER - it's just a matter of trying to act cool in front of his friends!. I want her to know that, because if it ever happens again, I don't want her to take it seriously and feel hurt!. Too many teenage guys care way more about their own ego than they do about anyone else's and they hurt a lot of girls and make a lot of pretty girls feel ugly and inferior when they are actually attractive!.
And she has to know, too, that even if a guy insults her and means it - REALLY - "beauty is in the eye of the beholder!." She shouldn't assume she is ugly or that all guys would think that she is!. It depends on the guy, what kind of girl he likes, what shape and weight he likes her to be!. Guys will tell you this, too!. One guy might think a girl is nothing special and another guy might think the same girl is really attractive, and this happens ALL THE TIME!. Guys have different taste in girls, just like girls have different taste in shoes!. So she should never feel hurt if one guy makes some horrible comment about her being ugly, because, chances are, there are tons of other guys out there who think she's really pretty!. ONE guy's opinion (or insulting comment) about how a girl looks is not representative of what EVERY guy out there thinks of her!. Not all guys are alike!.
I can say this from personal experience!.!.!.I've had some guys not like how I look at all and other guys think I'm really attractive - really, it's all a matter of taste!. It really will help her feel better if she takes seriously what I'm saying right now!. You don't think every guy out there is attractive, and just because your friend thinks some guy is good-looking doesn't mean that every girl out there will think he's that attractive!.!.!.!.we have taste in men, too; and so it is with guys - they have "taste" in what girls they like!. Please make sure your friend knows this!. There are guys out there - unfortunately - who like girls to look like nothing but skin and bones, like they are genuinely anorexic and dying from starvation (these guys obviously are not concerned about a girl's physical health or well-being!)!. There are guys out there who like girls who are thin but find anorexic-looking girls ugly!. There are guys who like women with athletic figures who are not very curvy!. There are guys who like ordinary-shaped women who are a healthy weight but not tremendously thin!. There are guys who like women who may be overweight but are really curvy!. There are guys who like women with a lot of padding because they are nice to cuddle with!. Really, beauty is in the eye of the beholder!. So she should never feel inferior just because one guy - or several guys - made some rude comment about her, because that is NOT going to be what all guys out there think of her!. And if some guy insults her, what does his opinion matter anyway!? A guy who is selfish and rude enough to go around making such hateful comments to girls, is not the kind of guy she would want anyway, because he's not a nice guy to be around!. And why put any value on the opinion of someone like that!? why even take it seriously!? I know it hurts, but it will help if you "consider the source" when someone like that insults you!.!.!.by saying things like that, the person is just showing what a bad heart they have, not how bad you are!.
A girl might insult another girl because she's jealous of the girl's figure and wants to put her down, or jealous that the girl has the attention of some guy she likes, or because she is just hateful and wants to hurt the girl's feelings and make her feel insecure!.
Typically, the people who insult other people are insecure themselves, or hate something about themselves, so they feel like if they put down other people, they can act and feel like they are superior to others!. It makes them feel better about themselves, when they insult others!. If your best friend understands this, it will help her not to feel so hurt if someone says something like this!.!.!.!.especially since, lots of times, the insult is not even true!.
If anyone ever says this to her again, she should reply by looking the person straight in the eye and saying, "I'm a perfect, healthy weight for my height, I'm thin, and I'm satisfied with my weight!. I don't plan on becoming anorexic!" A confident response like that usually makes an insulting person shut up!. If she lets the comment get to her and get her down, that person is likely to insult her again because people often bully others that they can get a reaction from, and leave people alone that they can't seem to have an effect on!.!.!.so I really suggest that she should either laugh it off or respond with a confident answer like that, and not let anyone think it bothers her!. That will help prevent it from happening over and over!.
I really wish her the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I hope she won't take that comment seriously at all because the person who said it obviously doesn't know the definition of "fat!."
People who make insulting remarks like this ALWAYS do it for selfish reasons!.
A guy might insult a girl - even though it's not true - just to show off to his (guy) friends!. She needs to know that!. A lot of obnoxious comments from guys about a girl's looks, like when she walks by and a bunch of guys look at her and then make comments, are REALLY NOT WHAT THE GUY ACTUALLY THINKS OF HER - it's just a matter of trying to act cool in front of his friends!. I want her to know that, because if it ever happens again, I don't want her to take it seriously and feel hurt!. Too many teenage guys care way more about their own ego than they do about anyone else's and they hurt a lot of girls and make a lot of pretty girls feel ugly and inferior when they are actually attractive!.
And she has to know, too, that even if a guy insults her and means it - REALLY - "beauty is in the eye of the beholder!." She shouldn't assume she is ugly or that all guys would think that she is!. It depends on the guy, what kind of girl he likes, what shape and weight he likes her to be!. Guys will tell you this, too!. One guy might think a girl is nothing special and another guy might think the same girl is really attractive, and this happens ALL THE TIME!. Guys have different taste in girls, just like girls have different taste in shoes!. So she should never feel hurt if one guy makes some horrible comment about her being ugly, because, chances are, there are tons of other guys out there who think she's really pretty!. ONE guy's opinion (or insulting comment) about how a girl looks is not representative of what EVERY guy out there thinks of her!. Not all guys are alike!.
I can say this from personal experience!.!.!.I've had some guys not like how I look at all and other guys think I'm really attractive - really, it's all a matter of taste!. It really will help her feel better if she takes seriously what I'm saying right now!. You don't think every guy out there is attractive, and just because your friend thinks some guy is good-looking doesn't mean that every girl out there will think he's that attractive!.!.!.!.we have taste in men, too; and so it is with guys - they have "taste" in what girls they like!. Please make sure your friend knows this!. There are guys out there - unfortunately - who like girls to look like nothing but skin and bones, like they are genuinely anorexic and dying from starvation (these guys obviously are not concerned about a girl's physical health or well-being!)!. There are guys out there who like girls who are thin but find anorexic-looking girls ugly!. There are guys who like women with athletic figures who are not very curvy!. There are guys who like ordinary-shaped women who are a healthy weight but not tremendously thin!. There are guys who like women who may be overweight but are really curvy!. There are guys who like women with a lot of padding because they are nice to cuddle with!. Really, beauty is in the eye of the beholder!. So she should never feel inferior just because one guy - or several guys - made some rude comment about her, because that is NOT going to be what all guys out there think of her!. And if some guy insults her, what does his opinion matter anyway!? A guy who is selfish and rude enough to go around making such hateful comments to girls, is not the kind of guy she would want anyway, because he's not a nice guy to be around!. And why put any value on the opinion of someone like that!? why even take it seriously!? I know it hurts, but it will help if you "consider the source" when someone like that insults you!.!.!.by saying things like that, the person is just showing what a bad heart they have, not how bad you are!.
A girl might insult another girl because she's jealous of the girl's figure and wants to put her down, or jealous that the girl has the attention of some guy she likes, or because she is just hateful and wants to hurt the girl's feelings and make her feel insecure!.
Typically, the people who insult other people are insecure themselves, or hate something about themselves, so they feel like if they put down other people, they can act and feel like they are superior to others!. It makes them feel better about themselves, when they insult others!. If your best friend understands this, it will help her not to feel so hurt if someone says something like this!.!.!.!.especially since, lots of times, the insult is not even true!.
If anyone ever says this to her again, she should reply by looking the person straight in the eye and saying, "I'm a perfect, healthy weight for my height, I'm thin, and I'm satisfied with my weight!. I don't plan on becoming anorexic!" A confident response like that usually makes an insulting person shut up!. If she lets the comment get to her and get her down, that person is likely to insult her again because people often bully others that they can get a reaction from, and leave people alone that they can't seem to have an effect on!.!.!.so I really suggest that she should either laugh it off or respond with a confident answer like that, and not let anyone think it bothers her!. That will help prevent it from happening over and over!.
I really wish her the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Omg both of you are soooo pretty!
She shouldn't worry about what other people say cause their obviously jealous! it dosen't take a rocket scientist to say that shes gorgeous!
People in school are so rude !.!.!.ughh don't even waste your time on it!. hahahahWww@Answer-Health@Com
She shouldn't worry about what other people say cause their obviously jealous! it dosen't take a rocket scientist to say that shes gorgeous!
People in school are so rude !.!.!.ughh don't even waste your time on it!. hahahahWww@Answer-Health@Com
no she is not fat! i weigh 130 and am 5"2 and i dont look like im fat!. who ever said she was; was just jealous that they didnt look like her!. you both are skinny mini's and pretty too !
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she is not fat AT ALL! i think she is actually really thin! the person that said that was probably just jealous!. and yes, both of you are beautifulWww@Answer-Health@Com
the pictures didnt work!.
but just tell the jerk that told her she is fat
to get a life!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
but just tell the jerk that told her she is fat
to get a life!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
if its the girl with the black hair in the horse shirt i thikn it was fat were would she get that idea!? she is definetly not fat at allWww@Answer-Health@Com
i think she's slim!!!
who is that jerk saying that she's fat!?!?!!!
tell her she is beautiul!!!
i don't want such a pretty girl to become anorexic!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
who is that jerk saying that she's fat!?!?!!!
tell her she is beautiul!!!
i don't want such a pretty girl to become anorexic!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh come on!.!.!. Not an ounce of fat on her or you!. I wished I could be so lucky as to have your figures!.Www@Answer-Health@Com