How am i goin to tellhe that i like her? in a way that she'll like what im goin !
Question:
How am i goin to tellhe that i like her? in a way that she'll like what im goin to say.i mean in a unique way.
answer me pals!it's hard for me to say to her what i really feel because she might not like me the way i wanted!
Answers:
It is a risk, because when you love someone you become vulnerable. But you would be better off to be thinking about her, and finding out what she likes, and whom she likes. It is good to take time with her, ready to listen more than to speak. Does she like a kind of food or flower or entertainment? Could you put a little note or poem of your feelings for her in a flower or card or invitation. Like and love is something you grow into, teaching each other how to love each other, so you might not be loved the way you want right away. But it is important to find out if she likes someone else better? If so, then you need to be able to let her go, though it would not hurt to give her some sign of your affection but without strings attached. Friendship may be best for now, but I find thinking more about her and not what you want from her is a healthier form of loving. (That Fortune cookie idea seems cute if she likes Chinese food, and you're sure she'll get the right one.) Or something under her plate or serviette at a special meal. Or a flower with a note of a leaf or petal. Or a series of clues leading to your special place to share your affection with her, while leaving her free to respond as she likes. She may need to be told what you expect, but you cannot be possessive at this stage, or have too high expectations. Just be thoughtful and attentive as she may or may not be the right one, so at this stage, you both need to be free to respond in your own way.