Men please, My new sweet heart is putting on weight fast, right in the gut!
Question: Men please, My new sweet heart is putting on weight fast, right in the gut
is it possible to encourage him to work out!?!? I really like him and wanna keep him, but he is getting big!! what to do!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
maybe go on a diet with him!.!.!.you know say something like!.!.!.I think we should get healthier and say that you two should go on a diet and excersise routine, if you do it together than I think it would be better than just telling him he's getting fat and needs to shape up or you're out!.
As for people saying your being shallow or w/e thats completly off!. You can want your girlfriend / boyfriend to be healthy and in shape !.!.!. physical attraction does play a part in a relationship, that being said its obviously not the only part!. I think it is very reasonable that you would want him to be healthy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
As for people saying your being shallow or w/e thats completly off!. You can want your girlfriend / boyfriend to be healthy and in shape !.!.!. physical attraction does play a part in a relationship, that being said its obviously not the only part!. I think it is very reasonable that you would want him to be healthy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
the best way to encourage him to work out is to start working out yourself!. if he sees you doing it and you like doing things together than he will!. try bike riding together, hiking, rock climbing, swimming (night swimming can be romantic) (he may go for that one) than i would try to get him to go to the gym!. do not make it like you want him to do it for him but rather for you!. say honey i want to start going to the gym so i can feel better about myself and i would really enjoy if you go with me, we could spend time together and have fun and get fit at the same time, also if you do the grocery shopping start changing what you buy, kashi cereal, kashi bars make grilled chicken, grilled fish, get him to start drinking at least a gallon of water a day!. lead by example! check out my web site and take a look at forums for more diet information good luck and feel free to contact meWww@Answer-Health@Com
just say, "honey, why don't we go to the gym together or go running/biking!?" you may have to do the physical stuff with him!. you guys could both have fun working out together though!. personally, If my girlfriend told me that she didn't like my fat and just told me that I need to work out, I would!. also, you should be into him for his personality and not for looks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Suggest something that you two can do together!. Maybe go bike riding, join a gym, hell!.!.!.even just take a walk around town!. If you just suggest it without bringing attention to his gut, he, most likely, won't jump on the defensive!. In case you are wondering, I am a 35 year old male!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell him that YOU want to be in better shape and start inviting him to go on walks, eat salads, etc!. That way, you are not making him lose weight--he is in it with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Either love him for who he is or move on and be vein with someone else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com