I made fun of a fat person?!


Question: I made fun of a fat person!?
I made fun of a fat person yesterday, with my two friends next to me!.!. Mind you, I'm not the skinniest person in the world, I'm actually pretty large myself!.!.
Anyway, her sister was standing right next to me!.
I had no idea she was her sister, and she goes: "Excuse me, that woman you are making fun of is my sister and you should be ashamed of yourself!." and she took her son (The lady's nephew) away!.
I'm confused about a few things!.!.!.I made several comments about this lady, maybe about 6 or 7!. And her "sister" didn't tell me to stop until about the 7th comment was made!. It's like!.!.!.shouldn't she have stopped me before things got out of hand and before her son heard everything!?
!.!.!.I felt completely terrible, anyway
And I'm probably never going to see this woman again!.
But how do I clear my conscious!?
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Answers:
jeez some of u people act like u have never made fun of anyone
fat,skinny,ugly, whatever u people arent perfect either!. the point is everyone makes a mistake and you shouldnt come out so hard on her just for this one time!. Anyways, Gabby if your feeling guilty then your feeling sorry!. i have done things in the past where i wasnt able to go back and apologize to that one person and it made me feel guilty!. what u need to do is put it in ur mind that you wont do it again!. simple as that!.
maybe you could meditate to clear your mind!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's too late to clear your conscious!. You should have apologized immediately!.

The woman probably waited because she did not want to make a scene but when it became painfully obvious that you had no intention of stopping your cruel remarks then she felt she had to!.

Maybe it will be a good lesson to you!. How would you feel hearing remarks about yourself, your weight, your looks, your clothes!? Don't make fun of others, be a better person after this experience please!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

lol you're totally right!.!. some people are just mean and try and play that too hard!.!. but yes um i guess just don't make fun of people!.!. i know it's something like you!.!. inside trying to get out!.!. and it's horrible to live in a world where you can't say what's on your mind!.!. because it's become all this politics and it's really unhealthy to beat on your own nature so hard!.!. but there is good reason for not saying anything!.!. sometimes!.!. but if people didn't do that!.!. if no one ever said something!.!.and they all did exactly what i just said!.!. then what do you got!? mindless robots!.!. right!.!. so keep the peaceWww@Answer-Health@Com

omg the same thing happened to me at the movies the other day! so me and my friend were standing out side the movie hall and this enormously FAT lady walked by and i WHISPERED to my friend "watch out, here comes the earthquake", and SHE HEARD ME!!! then she said "you should be ashamed of yourself"! and then i felt really bad so now i will never make fun of a fat person again! well, good luck clearing your conscious!. o and also next time, think before you speak!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Lovely person!.

You do realise its people like you who make comments about peoples weight that fill there heads with enough crap to make them anorexic or bullimic!?

Considering you are "pretty large" yourself, who the hell are you to judge someone else!?!

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Just Foret about it!. The lady and her sister probably already forgot!. I know you prolly feel terrable but there's nothing you can do about it now!. So just move on and don't do it again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Why don't you just come to terms that you said some things that were not nice at all, and just promise to keep your negative remarks to yourself in the future!? I think that would be easy enough!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

if your feeling guilty now those jokes must have been really horrible!. just dont make fun of fat people again!. and if you see some fat person being made fun of, you try defending them, itll make you feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Karma

someday soon some one is going to be making fun of you unless you have learned your lesson!. You got off lucky!.!.if my sister overheard you making fun of me she would have knocked your teeth out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You were looking like a big fool all by yourself!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. The sister probably thought you were going to stop!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.! When you didn't she probably felt like she had to do something!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.! Hope you do better next time!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!=) Good Luck!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!Www@Answer-Health@Com

do a good deed for someone else to make up for the carma you created!. :) oh, and think before you speak next time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You can't make fun of fat people, since you're fat!.
That's just hypocritical!.
Don't make fun of them at all actually, even if it is their fault they let themselves go so badly!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

stop making fun of fat people, thats really mean, especially if you are large yourself!. Also, saying sorry couldnt hurt either!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

She'll get over it!.

Besides, fat jokes are funny sometimes!.

But sometimes they aren't!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

DON'T FEEL GUILTY!.!.MAYBE BECAUSE OF YOU, SHE'LL TAKE LESS TRIPS TO THE REFRIGERATOR AND GET OFF HER FAT *** AND START EXERCISING, IN THAT CASE ,, SHE SHOULD THANK YOU!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't worry, Karma will catch up with you!. You shouldn't be making fun of others, period!. Hope you learned a lesson!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You don't!. You properly feel guilty and remember that feeling the next time you get the urge to make such comments!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Make other fat people or with other flaws feel comfortable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Meh, I do it all the timeWww@Answer-Health@Com

Don't worry about it its over!. Just learn and don't do it again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Jesus, people!. Everyone's made fun of someone so you're all not any better so shut the **** up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Say you`re sorry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Buy her some slim fastWww@Answer-Health@Com

leave the fat people alone, you have no right to judgeWww@Answer-Health@Com

Don't make fun of people who are overweight!.!.!. especially when you are fat aswell!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you're horrible, i hope someone makes fun of you and hurts you someday!Www@Answer-Health@Com

you are coolWww@Answer-Health@Com

say sorry to her sister that you were being rudeWww@Answer-Health@Com

harsh calling someone fat when your not perfect!Www@Answer-Health@Com

you should be ashamed of your self that was a very rude and childish thing to do!. she may not be the lady's sister but wanted you to feel like rubbish because you were being a jerk!. She probably figured you would stop and when you didn't took the quickest way to shut you down!. I've done that to people myself!. You need to be careful when you say things about people!. It could come back to bite you one day!.

You can apologize to your friend!. You said the woman who shut you down was a friend I assume you meant your friend!. And sorry if you feel yelled at no matter how quilty you feel!. Now you can feel like your friend did when you were making your comments!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think she (the lady's sister) didn't stop you because she expected YOU to stop yourself!. She may not have said anything after one or two comments, but 6 or 7 could have pushed her too far!. Imagine if you were the kid standing there with your aunt hearing somebody just trash your mother!? You shouldn't clear your conscience at all!. This incident was a life lesson for you to remember!. Feeling terrible, and telling someone (us) what you did wrong is a healthy way of dealing with it!. The guilt you feel is a sign that you have a heart and you didn't actually want to hurt that lady, her sister, or her son!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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