Why do i feel this way? please help me!!
Question: Why do i feel this way!? please help me!
so in June i was 154 lbs!. and this guy that i was crushing on said that he liked me so i thought that since his last girlfriends were all thin then i needed to be thin also, so by the end of July i was 140 lbs and i am still losing weight,but he didn't think i was fat,but to feel better about myself i decided to lose weight no matter what it took and so now i am at my goal weight and i still think i am too fat to go back to school and i think he wont like me anymore if i am not skinny!. why am i thinking this way!?
i am now 139 lbs!.
2nd Goal-under 135 lbsWww@Answer-Health@Com
i am now 139 lbs!.
2nd Goal-under 135 lbsWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
There's obviously something in you (the way you look, your personality, etc) that he really liked before, even when you were 154 pounds!. Don't underestimate his feelings for you, or your self for that matter!.
I did the same thing this summer!. I was told by so many people that I guy liked me but I ignored him, thinking that he couldn't like me!. Once I finally figured out that he did, it was way too late!.
If you want to lose weight for your own health or to look better, go for it!. I'm doing the same at the moment!. Just make sure that you do it for all the right reasons!. And that you remember that even if you lose (or gain) a few more pounds, you'll be the same person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I did the same thing this summer!. I was told by so many people that I guy liked me but I ignored him, thinking that he couldn't like me!. Once I finally figured out that he did, it was way too late!.
If you want to lose weight for your own health or to look better, go for it!. I'm doing the same at the moment!. Just make sure that you do it for all the right reasons!. And that you remember that even if you lose (or gain) a few more pounds, you'll be the same person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Trust me, no guy is worth changing yourself over!. If he said he liked you "so much" before you lost weight, why bother trying to change!? Plus, to think he won't like you because you're not skinny is ridiculous! If he is that shallow, he don't deserve to be with anyone!. You are thinking this way because you're afraid of him not liking you, so you think you have to change!. But the reality is, you don't!. If i were you, I'd stop losing weight before an eating disorder develops, because that is a very big possibility for you!. Learn to love yourself first!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think that you should not loose weight because of a guy, and you said that he dint even say you was fat!. so why are you losing weight!? another thing one reason why he has past girlfriends was because they were too skinny!.!.!.!. have you thought about that!? and how did you loose weight so fast!? fasting is not healthy just in case!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he is Mr!. Right, he should like you regardless of weight!.
But on another note mostly all females are super self conscious of their weight!.
How tall are you!? I can tell you the least amount you can weigh and still be healthy!.
But congratulations on the 19 pounds!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
But on another note mostly all females are super self conscious of their weight!.
How tall are you!? I can tell you the least amount you can weigh and still be healthy!.
But congratulations on the 19 pounds!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
well if he never thought you were fat its fine!. be you if he doesnt like u cuz ur size u woodnt want a future w!. him :] you have to love yourself b-4 anyone else can! hope i helpedWww@Answer-Health@Com