Is this wrong of me to think like this of a friend?!
Question: Is this wrong of me to think like this of a friend!?
Ok I recently saw a mate of mine who has always been "chunky" - I love her to bits but a lot of people I know have major issues with her attitude, but I don't she is who she is!.
But she always been quite fat, which is not a term I use flippantly, but she was a wobbler when she walked - and she moaned about it but would then sit and eat a double cheese and bacon burger!.
Recently she's been going to the gym (about 3 months I think) and it's made a huge difference, she's still got an attitude problem which as far as I'm concerned is great lol, but she's lost a lot of weight and looks good for it!. She's not overly "pretty" nor does she care for make-up or anything, but she looks normal and now she's lost this weight she does look a lot better than she did!. Tbh I'm bloody proud of her :]
Anyway, as proud as I am of her, and her weight loss, I've been thinking I should lose some myself (certainly tone up) and I want to be thinner than her, and I feel kinda guilty for it!. I have about 3 stone (42lbs) I want to shift, probably don't *need* to but *want* to!.
Is it bad of me that I'm being like this with a close friend!?
And that I want to do it without her knowledge!?
We can't do it together as we live 200 miles apart lol!.
Thanks
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But she always been quite fat, which is not a term I use flippantly, but she was a wobbler when she walked - and she moaned about it but would then sit and eat a double cheese and bacon burger!.
Recently she's been going to the gym (about 3 months I think) and it's made a huge difference, she's still got an attitude problem which as far as I'm concerned is great lol, but she's lost a lot of weight and looks good for it!. She's not overly "pretty" nor does she care for make-up or anything, but she looks normal and now she's lost this weight she does look a lot better than she did!. Tbh I'm bloody proud of her :]
Anyway, as proud as I am of her, and her weight loss, I've been thinking I should lose some myself (certainly tone up) and I want to be thinner than her, and I feel kinda guilty for it!. I have about 3 stone (42lbs) I want to shift, probably don't *need* to but *want* to!.
Is it bad of me that I'm being like this with a close friend!?
And that I want to do it without her knowledge!?
We can't do it together as we live 200 miles apart lol!.
Thanks
xxxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Not at all!. All that has happened is that your friends weightloss has motivated you to do something yourself, your friend would probably be very proud that she's had this affect on you!.
The only things that worries me is that you say that you want to lose 3 stone rather than need to!. Look up on the internet what your healthy weight range for your height and stick to a weight somewhere in there!. This isn't a competition!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The only things that worries me is that you say that you want to lose 3 stone rather than need to!. Look up on the internet what your healthy weight range for your height and stick to a weight somewhere in there!. This isn't a competition!.Www@Answer-Health@Com