When I judge fat people, is my claim valid?!
Question: When I judge fat people, is my claim valid!?
Ok, first of all I hate all these politically correct Y!A answers!.!. like "oh you should just love people for what they are on the inside!.!. not on the outside" B!.S!.!.!. thats what ugly people say!.
Listen, I'm 16, 5'11 (yess tall) and 108lbs (yes skinny and gorgeous)
My body is very very well proportioned!.!. like I don't look awkward, I lovveee it sooo much, and I love going to the beach in bikinis!. Heres my dilemma!. My mother is also very tall, slender, and elegant, so are my sisters and pretty much every woman in my family!. We have absolutely NO fat people in my family and my mom would disown us we ever became fat!. Seriously no joke my mom put my little sister who is 5 on a strict diet and one time she took us to walmart (eww) and pointed at all the nasty, trashy, fat people so that we would never turn out like them!. I'm starting to not like fat people, honestly, its just my personal opinion but alot of them are very disgusting, If I was "fat"!.!. god forbid!.!. I would just starve myself and live in a gym!. Even the slightest bit of fat on a persons body makes me cringe!. Being fat is unlady like, its trashy, it shows that someone is lazy!.!.!. I mean how can you not love and respect your own body!. So my question is, when you see a druggie in the train!.!. you judge them!.!.!. duh!.!.!. when you see a stranger in a dark alley!.!. you judge them and walk the other way!.!. when I see a fat person!.!. I automatically jugdge them!. So what is wrong with me judging them!. Its not like "racism"!.!.!. fat people chose to be fat and I do not pity them!. I only pity the offsprings of fat people who are forced to eat like their parents and bred to be future fatties!.
P!.S don't tell me B!.S about genetics!. My grandmother grew up in the 50s and she told me that she only had 2 fat girls in her school!. LOL unless the genes just mutated and started developing in the last 20 years!.!. OBESITY is not based on genetics!. GET OVER ITWww@Answer-Health@Com
Listen, I'm 16, 5'11 (yess tall) and 108lbs (yes skinny and gorgeous)
My body is very very well proportioned!.!. like I don't look awkward, I lovveee it sooo much, and I love going to the beach in bikinis!. Heres my dilemma!. My mother is also very tall, slender, and elegant, so are my sisters and pretty much every woman in my family!. We have absolutely NO fat people in my family and my mom would disown us we ever became fat!. Seriously no joke my mom put my little sister who is 5 on a strict diet and one time she took us to walmart (eww) and pointed at all the nasty, trashy, fat people so that we would never turn out like them!. I'm starting to not like fat people, honestly, its just my personal opinion but alot of them are very disgusting, If I was "fat"!.!. god forbid!.!. I would just starve myself and live in a gym!. Even the slightest bit of fat on a persons body makes me cringe!. Being fat is unlady like, its trashy, it shows that someone is lazy!.!.!. I mean how can you not love and respect your own body!. So my question is, when you see a druggie in the train!.!. you judge them!.!.!. duh!.!.!. when you see a stranger in a dark alley!.!. you judge them and walk the other way!.!. when I see a fat person!.!. I automatically jugdge them!. So what is wrong with me judging them!. Its not like "racism"!.!.!. fat people chose to be fat and I do not pity them!. I only pity the offsprings of fat people who are forced to eat like their parents and bred to be future fatties!.
P!.S don't tell me B!.S about genetics!. My grandmother grew up in the 50s and she told me that she only had 2 fat girls in her school!. LOL unless the genes just mutated and started developing in the last 20 years!.!. OBESITY is not based on genetics!. GET OVER ITWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Before you get too eager to proclaim yourself as "gorgeous"!.!.!.
I wonder how you would feel if someone judged YOU for being "too skinny!?"
At 5'11" and 108 lbs, you have a BMI of 15!.1 which is considered underweight!.!.!.i!.e!. too thin! Any reputable medical professional will tell you there are just as many health problems that can come from being too skinny as can come from being too fat!. See links below!.
Are you aware there are many people who think that being skinny is unattractive and they consider thin people undesirable as romantic partners !? Yes, it's true!
There are people of all sizes who judge those women who are very thin as "unfeminine" with "hard" features, (if you're a guy, they'll see you as the "unmanly" 98 lb weakling or a runt)
Personality wise, thin people are sometimes stereotyped as meanspirited, vain, sickly, stingy, selfish, neurotic, unnurturing, overly sensitive, obsessive-compulsive, unhappy, forever complaining and sexually uptight aka "frigid!."
Sometimes people who are thin are even assumed to be thin because they are anorexics or addicted to hard drugs like cocaine, heroine or methamphetamine or maybe even have a wasting disease like cancer or HIV/AIDS!
So, In answer to your question, no, your judgement of fat people is NOT valid!.!.!.no more valid than the judgement of skinny people I've presented here!.
There is actually a name for the sort of pathological fear of fat people you are demonstrating in this question/rant:
Cacomorphobia!.
In light of the harsh assessments you have made of overweight/obese people, I'm wondering if you may also possibly have a tendency towards body dysmorphic disorder which is feeding into your irrational fear of fat!.
At any rate, you need to seriously consider going into counseling to deal with these two issues before you wind up with a full fledged case of an eating disorder such as anorexia or bulemia!.!.!.or alienating a lot of people because of your prejudicial view of the world!.
EDIT
You're only 16 now and blessed with good metabolism!. Enjoy it while you can!. Let me tell you I know from personal experience that it may not last forever, and for many people it doesn't!. There is a good chance that you, too, could get to age 40 or so, and then find to your dismay that no matter what you do diet or exercise wise, that weight will creep on and will NOT come off, or you may wind up with a medical condition that will cause nearly irreversible weight gain such as Cushings Syndrome, Crohn's Disease or PCOS!.!.!.or you could wind up disabled in a wheelchair and unable to exercise like you used to!.!.!.!.
and then what are you going to do!? How will you see yourself then!? Will you remember your 'famous last words' then!? I certainly hope so!.
So be careful, karma has a vicious way of biting people in the butt when they least expect it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I wonder how you would feel if someone judged YOU for being "too skinny!?"
At 5'11" and 108 lbs, you have a BMI of 15!.1 which is considered underweight!.!.!.i!.e!. too thin! Any reputable medical professional will tell you there are just as many health problems that can come from being too skinny as can come from being too fat!. See links below!.
Are you aware there are many people who think that being skinny is unattractive and they consider thin people undesirable as romantic partners !? Yes, it's true!
There are people of all sizes who judge those women who are very thin as "unfeminine" with "hard" features, (if you're a guy, they'll see you as the "unmanly" 98 lb weakling or a runt)
Personality wise, thin people are sometimes stereotyped as meanspirited, vain, sickly, stingy, selfish, neurotic, unnurturing, overly sensitive, obsessive-compulsive, unhappy, forever complaining and sexually uptight aka "frigid!."
Sometimes people who are thin are even assumed to be thin because they are anorexics or addicted to hard drugs like cocaine, heroine or methamphetamine or maybe even have a wasting disease like cancer or HIV/AIDS!
So, In answer to your question, no, your judgement of fat people is NOT valid!.!.!.no more valid than the judgement of skinny people I've presented here!.
There is actually a name for the sort of pathological fear of fat people you are demonstrating in this question/rant:
Cacomorphobia!.
In light of the harsh assessments you have made of overweight/obese people, I'm wondering if you may also possibly have a tendency towards body dysmorphic disorder which is feeding into your irrational fear of fat!.
At any rate, you need to seriously consider going into counseling to deal with these two issues before you wind up with a full fledged case of an eating disorder such as anorexia or bulemia!.!.!.or alienating a lot of people because of your prejudicial view of the world!.
EDIT
You're only 16 now and blessed with good metabolism!. Enjoy it while you can!. Let me tell you I know from personal experience that it may not last forever, and for many people it doesn't!. There is a good chance that you, too, could get to age 40 or so, and then find to your dismay that no matter what you do diet or exercise wise, that weight will creep on and will NOT come off, or you may wind up with a medical condition that will cause nearly irreversible weight gain such as Cushings Syndrome, Crohn's Disease or PCOS!.!.!.or you could wind up disabled in a wheelchair and unable to exercise like you used to!.!.!.!.
and then what are you going to do!? How will you see yourself then!? Will you remember your 'famous last words' then!? I certainly hope so!.
So be careful, karma has a vicious way of biting people in the butt when they least expect it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel very sorry for you, your are in for a rude awakening someday!. I hope life doesn't bring you any harshness as you will never be equipped with your shallowness to handle it!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Nobody has the right to judge other people, sure hope nothing happens to you to change your perfect body!.!.!.accident, cancer!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are you really as good looking as you say!? Put a picture of yourself and prove it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you asked: "So what is wrong with me judging them!. Its not like "racism"!.!.!. fat people chose to be fat and I do not pity them"
what is wrong with it is you come off sounding so shallow, stupid and vain that no matter how beautiful you are on the outside, your inward beauty appears non existant!. if you feel this way, do yourself a favour and keep it to yourselfWww@Answer-Health@Com
what is wrong with it is you come off sounding so shallow, stupid and vain that no matter how beautiful you are on the outside, your inward beauty appears non existant!. if you feel this way, do yourself a favour and keep it to yourselfWww@Answer-Health@Com
I feel the same way about people who are way too thin and think that's attractive!. I'm sorry to say that at 5'11" and 108 pounds you can't possibly be well proportioned!. My wife is 4'11" and 108 and I think she is perfect!. Slightly overweight women are much more attractive to me than the ones who are way too thin!. The sad thing is that your mother apparently would disown you if you actually had some meat on your bones!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well you don't really have to like them and you can judge them if you want but what's the problem with them liking themselves the way they are!?
I don't find being fat sexy lol and come to think of it i don't really have any fat friends =/
but i am chunky and i do hit the gym up every day!
it is really really rare (if at all possible) that someone is "fat" cause of genetics, so what if they have big ladies in their family!? big ladies are big because they eat crappy food and don't exercise!.
However there are a few problems that might hinder someone's thin & absolutely gorgeous' gaining ability!.
That would be where the thyroid comes in!. But minus the medical issues and complications that a seldom few fatties have you're right, it is cause they are lazy!.
and lazy people aren't just lazy about exercising, they're lazy in every aspect of life and that's not very attractive!.
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I don't find being fat sexy lol and come to think of it i don't really have any fat friends =/
but i am chunky and i do hit the gym up every day!
it is really really rare (if at all possible) that someone is "fat" cause of genetics, so what if they have big ladies in their family!? big ladies are big because they eat crappy food and don't exercise!.
However there are a few problems that might hinder someone's thin & absolutely gorgeous' gaining ability!.
That would be where the thyroid comes in!. But minus the medical issues and complications that a seldom few fatties have you're right, it is cause they are lazy!.
and lazy people aren't just lazy about exercising, they're lazy in every aspect of life and that's not very attractive!.
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"Chose to be fat"!? Really!? Have you asked every person how they got that way!? I know people who are fat because of medications they take and people who are because of illness!. I don't mean depression and I don't mean that because they are ill they can't exercise or eat properly!. As for those other people you say I also judge, speak for yourself!. When you grow up and learn to take responsibility for your words and actions, perhaps you'll learn to use "I" statements and not wimp out with crap like "you judge" or "you think" or whatever!.When you understand everything about why a person is whatever they are (or you think they are), then you can judge them!. I hope you just needed some attention today and didn't mean this as a serious question!. You got your fix, now go away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The way you stated this made you sound a bit judgmental, but in all reality I think you're right!.
Fat people CAN do something about their weight!. It's about disciplining yourself to lose the weight!.
And as for the fat is beautiful thing, I agree with you!. They shouldn't make it sound like it's okay for you to be fat!. They should change it, unless their content with being fat!. But really, nobody likes fat people that much!. Nobody thinks fat people are "hot" so why would you want to make your self confidence go up by saying "im beautiful because I am fat!." What's the point in boosting your own confidence if you know that you'll probably not get the "hot guy" in your school!. It is because they're fat!. And most skinny people probably don't think that fat people are attractive!. It is ridiculous!.
I'm not as skinny as you, but I'm 14, 5'8", and 115 or so!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Fat people CAN do something about their weight!. It's about disciplining yourself to lose the weight!.
And as for the fat is beautiful thing, I agree with you!. They shouldn't make it sound like it's okay for you to be fat!. They should change it, unless their content with being fat!. But really, nobody likes fat people that much!. Nobody thinks fat people are "hot" so why would you want to make your self confidence go up by saying "im beautiful because I am fat!." What's the point in boosting your own confidence if you know that you'll probably not get the "hot guy" in your school!. It is because they're fat!. And most skinny people probably don't think that fat people are attractive!. It is ridiculous!.
I'm not as skinny as you, but I'm 14, 5'8", and 115 or so!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Women are genetically designed to have more fat on their bodies than a man; it gives us our curves and feminine figure!. I think you are blowing the term "obese" a little bit out of proportion if you can't stand "even the slightest bit of fat on a persons body"!.
You may be skinny and gorgeous but you're as deep as a puddle!. And I don't think there is ANYTHING more unattractive than that!. Good luck finding a guy who is willing to cater to that big head of yours!.
Make sure you put out!.!.!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You may be skinny and gorgeous but you're as deep as a puddle!. And I don't think there is ANYTHING more unattractive than that!. Good luck finding a guy who is willing to cater to that big head of yours!.
Make sure you put out!.!.!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com